Adult relationship advice from MALES please...i need help!?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, we have had our extremely hard times but we got through them, he has quit being a jerk, and i am 39 weeks pregnant with out first little one :-) but he used to always touch me and want to make love, the past year its like i always have to make the first move...and he lost his car and apartment and i lost mine so we only see eachother on weekends, he does call during the day after he gets off work and when he wakes up and after dinner and before work again, but still i want to know could there be someone else? i would be heart broken but i know guys like sex and i was wondering if his lack of interest is because of me being extremely pregnant lol or because theres someone else, i do still look good and am very clean and still keep myself up and havent gained that much weight even though im pregnant so i dont see how i would become UGLY lol or less attractive?Adult relationship advice from MALES please...i need help!?
First of all congratulations! and kudos to you for being a strong woman while pregnant, I am sure that you are going to be an amazing mom and role model for your child. I think that you need to just sit down, talk to him, and be patient with him. Just hear him out and try not to get angry or yell not matter what he says. Try your best to be a good listener. He may just be very worried. Many guys realize they are going to be a father and that is a lot of pressure on them. They feel the need to provide, protect, and make sure you guys will be ok in the future. He could be cheating on you, but you can never know unless you ask him what is wrong or what is going on. Anyways, keep your cool its not healthy for the baby. Good luck! And remember no matter what you have a blessing that is priceless right now: your baby!Adult relationship advice from MALES please...i need help!?
mmmm well you could please him doing other things and if you're good at it then he wouldn't be going out for burgers when he has steak cooked at home, you get what im trying to say?? Some women look prettier when they are pregnant and their breast get bigger which is awsome lol but talk to him and ask him that question and see what he says or how long it takes him to answer you
Trust me, I am sure you are beautiful; do not think you are ugly.


He is probably a bit ashamed that he has not been able to provide for you like you deserve.


There could be another woman, I am a man and I will not deny this, but you need to talk with him. You cannot tip-toe around wondering.


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I see 2 definite possibilities. One, he is depressed due to the loss of job, etc and feeling he is not providing for you. Two, he sees you as a mom figure now that you are so close to having his baby. This will pass.
what is with yoo 2?you have a discussion?you are youngs and have the chance to make the better decision to your lifes.to stay toghether is one and to talk is another.I wish you good look and try to thing you verry good
There could always be somebody else. But it sounds very unlikely to me. He calls you too much, and he's had too much crap going on that could affect his sense of self-worth and therefore desire to procreate.
id say confront him about what u think, but u also have to consider the first child is a little confusing and its a new expirience this is probably the one time guys want to talk about their toughts. hope it hlps
he doesnt have a car, or apartment and has a kid on the way. he is stressed, so sex is probably not the first thing on his mind. do him a favor and trust that there is no other girl
there is something about pregnant women that is a real turn off. I doubt it is someone else. Plus if he is working 2 jobs he is probably too pooped to pop.
...Um...Your pregnant?


I'm only 14...but...just wait until the baby has come. Then see what he's like. I think you'll be happy with the results. Plus waiting would make it so much better...I'm guessing...But I'm only 14.
well! ask him and if you think he is cheating, find out before it is too late! I mean you deserve the best and if having his child would turn him off then he isn't worth worrying about.
maybe he feels shitty about losing his car and wants to be able to provide for his family better
give head he will love it
Why don't you calmly sit down and ask him what's going on?
i doubt hes seeing sum1 else. you hang out on weekends so he cant be seeing em then and during the week it wud be impossible for him to juggle work, calling you 4times a day and another woman... he doesnt think your ugly but probably doesnt find you as attractive due to ur prego. although he wud deffinatly deiny this if you asked. just bring it up passively tiptoeing round the exact words ';do you not find me as attractive becuase im pregnant'; to him and hell probably get it, feel a little guilty, and love you proper again.... hopefully
Hi Britt, I don't think you have anything to worry about. First he is always calling you when he can by the sound of it. If he was seeing someone else I don't think he would be so eager to talk to you. Second My partner got pregnant with my first and she has had 2 from her previous marriage. We too live apart due to my job being so far away. Our love making declined as well because of me. As this was my first child I had this idea in my head that I could harm the baby or my partner if we made love. Silly me hah, but your partner could be thinking the same. Also loosing your car and apartment could put a dent in your libido as well.





Hope this helps


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Hard to tell. He could be depressed, which could easily cause him to lose interest. Unfortunately, if he is in another town, it is more likely that he has found something new to chase. It sucks that guys can bail even after they are dads, but the reality is he probably isn't nearly as emotionally attached as you are. Don't give up hope all the way, cause I just made a lot of assumptions in what I wrote, but definitely do some more digging.
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Gal kudos to the efforts you put in to maintain yourself, keep up the good work. You good, do not stress yourself over him, the guy must be really working hard to provide for both of you, all you can do is sit back and relax, if you still that strong make him nice meal when he gets off from work.