Friday, January 8, 2010

Boyfriend/Relationship Advice...Kinda Long/?

So My bf and I have been dating for 4 years. He broke up with me 2 days ago. I didnt know what to do or where to start.. So Last nite..(We still live together)...We had sex... and afterwards he flipped out on me... When he was about to *** I held him.. yo it was like a total joke and he thought I was like trying to get preg so he'd stay with me...I wasn't..I'm 19 and I dont want a baby. It was literatly a JOKE! Anyways he steals MY car and leaves and comes bak like 2 hours later wanting to talk. And of course I was willing.. cause I wanted em bak. Well. He ended up telling me everythin I needed to change for him.. Like I feel that I always need to be in contact with him. I'll text him and if he doesnt send bak I'll just like freak out on em and start saying crap about him with being with girls...Which he rarley hangs out with girls. He also said I needed to change by NOT bringing up this chick he cheated on me with. [[there is more..hold up]]Boyfriend/Relationship Advice...Kinda Long/?
Well, when u have a man who tells u that u are the ones who has to change so u can be together, thats not gonna be a happy relationship. Unless u feel like these are changes that u want to make for yourself, u are going to end up resenting him, trust me i know. And dont u deserve someone who doesnt cheat on you? I know ur young, but you have to show whoever ur with what u will and will not tolerrate. u have to show them what ur worth.Boyfriend/Relationship Advice...Kinda Long/?
OMG, HE OESNT EVEN HAVE HIS OWN CAR. ARE YOU ALSO PAYING THE RENT TOO?





let him go, 4 years is not long considering that you have the rest of your life ahead of you, let him go-what a user.





you and i both kno hel cheat again. its jus a matter of time
Ummm


why are you still living with your ex after two years?


anyways, i think despite what he says next, you should tell him how you feel and see how he reacts to that





Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Sounds like you both need a time out...If he is who you want and he wants to be with you...it will work out. Maybe try counseling.
......';)
oh well... i guess you know the answer by now... from what youre telling us... i guess its time to BREAK UP and MOVE ON... he is just using you... and the fact that he cheated on you means he can do it again in the future...





and youre PAYING the rent and he is USING your car really makes him dependable on you... another reason why you should break up on him...





another is... he does not trust you and you dont... either way... its not working for you guys... so i suggest that you break up with him... he is not worth all those troubles if he cannot support you in any way possible...
  • stop pimples
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