FEMALES-help with Relationship advice (EX GF)..Help?

Been together for 11 mos. First 7 were bliss, we were best friends and Romantic, basically everything. We had so much fun and spoke about our future (she Always brought it up-where we would live one day, etc.) Last 2 months for some reason I was available all the time and always wanted to be with her. Her friends would come into town from school which they went to in another city and she wanted to spend time with them, but for some reason I kinda pushed her and wanted to go too, like as a group. This led to fights(small) and she broke up w/ me 2-3 wks ago. We went to mall last week and then for dinner and had alot of fun. Then 2 days later she tells me she thinks we should have space from each other since we are not together. I dont know whats going on, this isnt the girl who has been Crazy in Love w/ me for the first 9 mos..She told me she lost attraction for me and that did hurt. She is only 20 and even though we are not together when we went to mall it was exactly like normal. Help.FEMALES-help with Relationship advice (EX GF)..Help?
First off you should have just let her go out with her friends. Did you think she would do something crazy or something without you? I mean thise are her friends who she probably havent seen ina few months. I would have kind of been upset to. She felt like you were smothering her everyone needs a little space every now and then. You are not together so you shouldnt think that going out to the mall one night would change anything. Just give her some time and space to think everything over. She will decide what she wants.FEMALES-help with Relationship advice (EX GF)..Help?
One womans trash is another womans treasure!


relationships are like that perfect in the beginning but after awhile its not as exciting. did she go out with her friends alone? f so maybe she feels guilty bout being with another guy
hay buddy


yeah this happens pretty often


look ill keep this simple


if you treat her right and respect what she wants


she will realise youre a good guy after all


so give her space.. ask her what she wants..


be nice to her. everynow and then ask her if use can


catch up.. and if she wants to then go for it.


but dont go to far keep it simple between you to


and yeah just if you do all that im sure she will want


to get back with you soon...


MOST OF ALL..!! be patient!!!!!! things like this can take time


and if she means alot to you..and you dont want to lose her


for good then you are goin to need to be patient





i hope you could use this advice...


i learn things from experience so trust me k


let me know how you go with it..





cheers mate :)


dan
Sorry, but, the honest gut feeling is she has another guy. Always follow you r gut on things and 9 out of 10 you will be right.
Tell her how you feel, try to work things out with her. Good luck =] xx
as a woman i can say yep we can be crazy in love but however you must understand that by pushing toward her like that your pushing her away,everyone needs a little time apart if for no other reason to step back breathe and see what else you can bring into the realionship as long as youve been together she probly just wants a little time alone or with her friend also oyu also have other friends so share life with all remeber true love conquers all if it is ment to be it will happen
tell her your feelings and hopefully she will understand your position
maybe she found another man and u should tell her how u feel about her and then maybe she will realize what a nice man u are and that she shoudn break up with u.good luck
Yes, When a girl tells you she doesn't feel the same anymore, It hurts, I've been through that, And I'm only 15, Just give her the space she wants, Then see if she wants to try again, If she doesn't, Move on, I know it's hard dude, But it's your only choice, Stalking is abit weird so you can't do that o.O so if she says no, Take it in your stride and move on.
';Last 2 months for some reason I was available all the time and always wanted to be with her.';


This is the freaking root of everything. If she did that to you.You will lose your attraction to her too. believe me.





And ,NO, you are not screwed up yet.


Can you do each of this


1.Find a freaking cool thing to do. A job, Work, Hobbies , Volunteer etc.. go on with your life. Dude, it's the root of your failure now. Everyone knew that. they just didn't say it. Because they are so afraid it hurt you. But for your sake. Accept it.


2.If you want to have your gf back. Be attractive. Be cool. Be fun. Surround yourself with cool girls and boys. Train yourself to be a better guy who don't need to be with any girl. But girls need to be close to you because you are cool!!!!!





The fastest and easiest way to get her to love you again is starting going out with a new girlfriend that is far more attractive than her (eg. prom queen). Make the new one head-over-heel in ove with you. and then invite those 2 together and let the new one do something and your ex will definitely be attracted to yo again. I saw this method work all the time.





3. Dont' be needy. This will kill you attractiveness.





If you want to find how to be attractive. Google for PUA (pick up artist)
It happens in every relationship, trust me. All i can tell you is talk and compromise. Tell her you still want to be with her, and show her how you feel. Tell her that if you two get back together, you'll try to talk things out and compromise when you disagree, instead of arguing. Promise her a solid relationship and just that ';in between phase'; that you have going.
Some things aren't meant to be forever. Enjoy the memories of the happy times you had with her. Obviously, she has gotten over the ';lust, newness, honeymoon state'; of the relationship and has decided it's not really love. You deserve someone who feels the same towards you as you do to them. Find another to love.

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