Need relationship advice?

I have been with my gf on and off for about 2.5 years. She means everything to me and i could picture myself being with her forever. We have a 10 month year old daughter and have been engaged before. The problem is that i have trust issues with her because she has cheated on me more than once and likes to flirt alot. I always feel like im not good enough for her and she says im mean to her which is why we fight. I have asked her to get rid of the guys that hit on her constantly and people she has slept with and i always get the response that if im nice and if it goes well for a while she will. Although its like blackmailing me i have to oblige to keep us together, and i cant be happy or nice when im stressed out all the time. If anyone can offer me some advice as what to do that would be great. I really love her more than anythign she makes me so happy when were together and is a great friend but i cant handle the attention she craves from other guys.Need relationship advice?
wow you have quite a situation


Go to some counseling. . . if your girlfriend goes through with it then that's going to help this situation a lot but if not then..


You have to understand that as long as your with her she's not going to stop causing you pain. The chances of her changing are real slim.


Its a really delicate situation because you have a child with her. What type of example are you going to give your baby girl if she sees that her mom is talking with other guys while she's with her dad.. .or sees her parents fighting. . Your baby is going to grow up thinking its ok. . and I hate to say it but do the same thing in her future relationships.


By starting to set a good example now your not just going to stop your pain but your also going to help your child.


I know its going to hurt to leave someone you loved, but all feelings aside, its the best thing for you and your child.


Maybe after your GF sees that she lost something good, she will change and realized how wrong she was, but don't expect her to come back soon, it may take her a long time or she may just not realize it





good luck