Serious Relationship Advice?

I met a wonderful and perfect guy for me at the beginning of the year and he's friends with my brother which isn't the problem at all. He has a girlfriend, but when i talk to him it sounds like he likes me but I can never tell. Sometimes he texts or talks like he's flirting but other times he specifically says friend i think to let me know. I can't stop thinking about him and I'm going away to college this fall. He's going to be gone for most of the summer so I'll never see him, but we keep in contact a lot. he is a very different guy, and very respectful, but it's the fact that he has a girlfriend that is really bugging me. I keep getting mixed signals from him.





He's a great friend and I don't want to mess things up with him, but i think there's something there and i don't want to regret not doing anything about it before i leave. What should i do???Serious Relationship Advice?
The best thing would be to wait until you come back. I think you might feel guilty for getting involved with him when he has a girlfriend, not to mention why start a relationship with him when you are moving. It would just distract you from school because all you would be thinking about is him. I know that is what I would do (if it were a girl).





Yet at the same time I would think twice about pursuing this relationship, because if he kicks this girl to the curb for you and is flirting with you while he is with her, it would make me think he may do the same thing to you.Serious Relationship Advice?
If you were his girlfriend and he was talking to another girl like he talks to you, would that upset you? I would judge his character based on how he treats the girlfriend that he already has. Even if you think he is the one for you, I would move on. Especially if your going to school, you WILL meet somebody else. He is taken, I say move on.
Stay away from him, he has girlfriend, imagine if you were that girl. Would u want your boyfriend to be talking to another girl? So don't interfere in his current relationship. If ya'll are meant to be toghether it will happen no matter what. :-)
Let him know how you feel. Tell him that hes sending you mixed feelings and you wanna know whats up. Like you said, you dont wanna regret not finding out. Then again, long distance relationships almost always never work out.
Don't do anything. If you make a move, it could be the wrong one and then it could just mess everything up between you two. Keep in touch with him while you're gone. You guys could still text and write.
your opinions DO NOT MATTER AT ALL HERE. LEAVE HIM ALONE. HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. STAY OUT OF IT. there are plenty of others guys out there who are SINGLE. are you insane????????? move on .
Stay friends with him, but don't move on him.





You're going off to college; you may discover new things about yourself, new sides of yourself that you wish to cultivate, and there may be wonderful people you haven't met yet. If he is someone who would be good to be with, then you can be friends and simply be there and wait for the right time to tell him that you're not only interested in him as a friend. I have had several lovers who were and remain my friends, and the friendship makes dating easier, because they aren't someone weird or new, just themselves.