HELP! relationship advice?

ooooookay, so there's two guys, and things are really complicated with both of them.


first guy: he's like my best friend and we've hung out for a really long time. i know he likes me, and he knows i like him. we spend a ton of time together and talk on the phone at night and stuff. only problem is, he's 5 years older [which isn't too big of a deal, but still] and my best friend likes him. technically, my best friend had dibs first, but he doens't like her like that. he's told her, but she has no idea that he and i have feelings for each other. i don't want to date him because i don't want to lose her friendship.


second guy: we start hanging out about a month ago, and he's really cool. we text all day and he tells me the sweetest stuff like how much he likes me and all. only problem here is, he has a girlfriend. and they've been dating for two years. but, everyone knows that he's really unhappy with her except for her. he says he's going to break up with her, but there's no way i can be sure.





the main problem is that i don't know who i should focus my attention on. i'm going to have to wait for either of them regardless, so i just need to know which one to wait for. which one seems more promising? which one would hurt less people?


i don't know why things have to be so complicated. %26gt;_%26lt;








please help :[ thanks a ton!HELP! relationship advice?
hi,


i think u shud focus on d first guy or just wait for sum more time as d 2nd guy its just been a month. but u hav known d 1st guy for a really long time as u say. u havent spent a long time wit d 2nd guy so u dnt realy knw him well.in d initial stages everything seems hunky dory but as time passes by u will know exactly wat 2 do.


n if ur friendship with ur best friend is so strong tht u dnt wanna lose her then im sure even she'll understand ur feelings.





all d best n hope this helps.





bye tc.


HELP! relationship advice?
First guy: age is just a number but you have to be on the same maturity level as him.


Second guy: Don't do anything with him until he's broken up with his girlfriend. Just keep in touch and see what happens.





Everything happens for a reason and I'm sure the right thing will happen in the end. You just have to wait and see.
Relationships are always hard no matter what. I really don't think either guy is worth waiting for I'm sure your more important to yourself for that. You never wait for some one if it's right it will happen without effort. You don't want to give up a goo friendship for a man that you don't even no will be there forever. You sure as hell don't want the one with the girlfriend even if he does say he's unhappy. If he's talking to you and still with her what do you think will happen if he gets unhappy with you. If you want to wait for someone make it the right person because if you had to ask yourself this question you no in your heart what is right and what is wrong.