It almost sounds like she just wants to be friends with you but is a little chicken to say it. I would say find another girl, cause she clearly either had feelings for another guy and left you to persue him or just got bored and wanted to get her life back. If you do get back together you need to give her more space like see each other 3 to 4 times max a week. But for now I would look for another girl cause that girl doesn't seem like she will be wanting you back anytime soon.
If its a must, try and talk to her casually, become friends, take her out to movies as friends etc and then gradually work her way back into going out. Dont rush her, and dont be all over her or ALWAYS bugging her, give her lots of space talk to her a few times a week max and dont get jelious of her around other guys. DO NOT TRY AND TELL HER WHAT SHE CAN AND CANT DO AT ALL... she wants to go to a party with a diff guy u gotta be cool otherwise she will cut u out!Need Relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!?
If both of you have expressing problems then you being the man has to do something no other man really likes doing. You have to tell her that you really care about her and you want to progress those feelings into love. Tell her you will always be there for her and you want to be more of a boy friend than a friend boy. Ask her for a chance to let you show her that you will be the best man she ever had. And with all that said you will have a 50% chance of getting her back.
well a girl likes a guy who can shoe his feelings when they need to be shown so tell her how you feel
and if she says that she still feels depressed tell her that you miss her and it hurts you more that you cant be with her
and tell her that you can make her laugh and smile and not feel bad\
just tell her how you feel
she sound sweet so go for it
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tell her '; everybody has problems and they just need to be fix, i been hurting ever since you lift me, and maybe i can't go on without you, i need you in my life, and if you still don't like me, it's my lost, if it me then tell me so i can change...'; whatever she saids go along with it, be good listener and tell her you don't to leave her. if you really like you should know what to say next.
hope this works! good luck!
getting her back is going to take time. depression is getting to be a really common part of peoples lives. and sometimes it gets the best of us. you just have to bare with it and help her out. right now she needs a friend. listen to her problems and let her know that you are there for her no matter what.
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just wait for her dawg. the same thing happened to me wit this chick last year.we dated for like 3 weeks.then she got all depressed and stuff so called me and her off.but then i saw her again after summer and we hooked back up now we are in love and have been dating for 6 months on monday..stuff works it self out on its own dude u just gotta run wit it u no
Give it some time. Make sure she knows you are there for her, but don't push it right now. She needs to work through some stuff, and to be honest, she may never work through it. It may also be an excuse to not be with you. Give it some time.
I COULDN'T GET PASSED ALL THE MISSPELLED WORDS...sorry. i tried. i don't even know what you said here. there is a spell-checker when you write on here.
if she dumped u it's for a reason. so leave her alone, try to find someone else, or do an extracuriccula activity to get her off of your mind. Move on dude.
call her or go to her work and say u are the only persone for me and i want to help and go through this together please take me back and if she really loves you im not trying to be mean she will take u back
Ask her out, and if you guys get back together, take it slowly. You guys are both pretty unstable, so don't rush it.
Give her space and time, if she is interested she will contact you. In the meantime, I wouldn't put my life on hold. Get out there and have fun. xox
Try to contact her and chat her up through her reaction you will know if it will woke out for both of you.
I think you need to learn how to use punctuation... thats probably why she finished with you.
talk 2 her.=]
just be with her
what are you waiting for
i am 17 years old and was tangled in a mess like this not long ago with MY girlfriend.
this is what you do.
NEVER GO ON A ONE-ON-ONE DATE the first time.
make it a group date. at least 4-8 people. that way if you say something REALLY dumb, a friend can quickly change the subject. (also works with awkward conversations.) but anways it will keep the situation less tense. and will allow her to be more casual with you.
now if the first 2 or 3 group dates go well, then go on a SMALL single date. keep it small, like an hour or so trip to the local park. once again, this protects against HUGE messed up dates. if it was planned to be long it will run a long time. even if it TOTALY SUCKS.
so ya, that is my ideas.
You should ask her. I believe that after everything you have gone through together you have reached a new stage in your relationship : emotional attachment. I think it is time to open yourselves and explain exactly how you feel to each other.
That way, if there were a next time she would have a depression instead of trying to exclude you from it she would turn towards you to comfort her and to help her.
It is my opinion that you should call her for dinner and tell her exactly what I'm telling you. It is pretty likely this will convince her, it will show your willingness to adapt and change for her, if there is the need, and also show the amount of affection you feel.
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