Needing Relationship Advice!?

I have been off and on with this particular boy for over 3 years now. When we got together, he and I both felt like we had met our soulmate. I ended up getting pregnant a couple of months after we got together, and miscarried. He took this VERY hard..and eventually we ended things because of the stress that was caused..





But, we have continued our romance throughout these three years, and he has been with one particular girl. He would cheat on her with me, leave her, come and be with me, and then he would run back to her so he could go party and not have to settle down.





He recently just had a child with her, and I hadn't talked to him in almost a year. His child was born with only one arm, so I decided to extend my hand and let him know I was here for him. I went to his apartment that night, and we talked forever. I tried to be more of his friend, but our tension was obviously there. We started talking about getting back together and he told me he knew I was his soulmate, and eventually he and I hooked up.





We have been talking ever since and we talk constantly about getting together in the future, but he has to get his fiance set up financially to where she can support their child when she has him for her half. And I am the one who is telling him to try to work things out with his fiance, but he seems to be set on being with me. I am still in school, so I gave him a time frame of a year and a half to have his issues settled, or I would be moving as soon as I graduate to take a job in another town.





Everything changed last night when he went to work and he didn't text me when he left his fiance. I asked him if everything with him and his fiance were okay and he said that they were a lot better. I get scared that I am putting hopes in this man, who might turn out to stay with his fiance and work things out with her. I asked him if he thought he and I should stop talking..and he still suggested that we keep talking.





I am just trying to get input on what I should do with him. Should I just trust in him that he is being honest when he says that he just doesn't feel that way for her and that he wants to be with me, or should I be cautious and completely turn away from him because he won't leave her? I just need outsiders opinions..so anything would be SOO much appreciated!Needing Relationship Advice!?
Sounds like this guy wants to have his cake and eat it too. And the sad thing is, you are allowing him to have just that. The fact that he has no problem messing around on her with you should tell you something about his character. He is going to tell you what you want to hear and string the both of you along. I feel really sorry for the other girl because she is probably unaware that this is going on. If she is lucky, she will find out and dump his sorry butt. You know what he is all about....so if you stick around, that's a problem you created for yourself. Good luck with that.Needing Relationship Advice!?
It sounds like y'all have been through A LOT!


I don't think you should completely trust him that he'll leave, in case he doesn't, I mean he did have a child with her. But, on the other hand, you still have feelings for him so just continue talking to him and see if you can get him to like you more than his fiance.
Leave him alone. Hes engaged. I feel sorry for girls like you that think the man is gonna leave the mother of his child for you. Its not gonna happen. Let it go and move on. Why wait around for a guy that has a fiance? He goes home to her every night. He probably still sleeps with her and your waiting around for him. Giving him a year to break things off. Come on be smart. I thought you said you were graduating soon.