I just broke up with my boyfriend today because I feel it was the right thing to do.. you tell me if I was in the wrong.
He lives in AR and I live in IL. I was visiting him for our one year anniversary and he told me that he had bought me a ring. I was planning on moving there in July and he knows that I want to marry him, I know that he wants to marry me. Anyways, The 3rd day I was there, the day after our anniversary, we got in a fight. I was looking on his computer and he had pictures(gross, nasty ones) of his ex-g/f still. I brought it up to him and I was pretty mad, but then we ended up working it all out. He forgot they were on there, and I honestly believe he did forget. I've done things like that before and he is forgetful. Ok so we made up and everything was good. He still had not proposed yet and I was beginning to worry. Well the last day I'm there comes around and still NOTHING! We ended up going out to dinner with all of his friends and then to a movie by ourselves. I was so furious at that point that I just went to sleep when we got back to his house because I realyl didn't have anything to say to him. Well then in the morning(5am) as he was driving me to the airport he asked me what was wrong, and I had told him ';That I'm going home as only your girlfriend once again.. you bought me a ring, you said you wanted to marry me before, and still I get nothing.'; Oh and by the way, I didn't get anything from him for our anniversary. Well then he said ';I just want to make sure that you trust me 100% before I ask you.'; That was because of the other night. And I ended it with I'm not moving here only being your g/f. I feel stupid telling people I'm moving to another state to be with my b/f. And then I left and told him I didn't want to talk to him. After I got off the plane, I let him know I got there safe and thanked him for everything. Oh and I got him a new dryer and I made him a pillow for our anniversary. He didn't even give me a card. Guys--I could realyl use some advice! Please help me! Am I in the wrong? Am I being stubborn? Or do you think I'm right?Need relationship advice! HELP!!!?
I know i'm not a guy but still..Your right..he's a jerk...i really really doubt he forgot those pictures were on his computer %26amp; he probably was lieing about why he didnt ask you %26amp; furthermore it takes a major prick to let you buy him something (anniversary or not) %26amp; not even give you a CARD!!! dont go back hun!Need relationship advice! HELP!!!?
That was really shitty of him. But still I don't think breaking up was the right choice! You guys were really close to making a big decision and giving up now wouldn't be right! If you do get married things will get a lot bumpier along the way but you wouldn't give up then right ? If you see a future with this guy tell him how you feel and give him a chance to make this right. If you see no future then you made a good choice and ditch that scum bag !
Friday, January 8, 2010
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