I need some relationship advice. Please Help?

My girlfriend broke up with me a couple days ago(after 3.5 years together). She tells me that im am not romantic to her and as caring for her. She has told me this before, but I guess I didnt think anything of it. Well now she broke up with me for two weeks to think about our relationship, and she could initially break up with me for good. We still see each other- only a couple times a week though. So heres my questions- I want to show her how much I care and am sorry for not being romantic and always showing that I care, but I dont know what I should do. I want to send her flowers and when she comes over tomarrow, I want to make her a mix cd. What else should I do? or what should I not do? Please Help.I need some relationship advice. Please Help?
Only do things that you are willing to follow through with. A bunch of flowers may not do the trick.


Take her out for dinner, tell her how great she looks, and hang on every word she says.


Good luckI need some relationship advice. Please Help?
Ok...I'm going to tell you a very big secret....are you ready for this?? All that women want are the little things!!! Guys never seem to understand this. You all think that spending money on us is the way to our hearts. It's not what's in the wallet, it's what's in the heart!





I have been DYING for my boyfriend to write me a sweet little poem about why he loves me, but he says he can't seem to ';tap into his emotions'; the same way I can. If he wrote his feelings on paper, it would mean the WORLD to me. You don't have to be a poet to do this...just tell her how you feel...write it all down, so she can read it over and over...and then she can gush to her friends about it.





One thing I did for a boyfriend for V-Day was awesome....he said it was the BEST gift he had ever received from a girlfriend. I posted little rhyming clues around his apartment that led him to different little gifts. One of the clues lead him to his shower, where I told him to shower off and put on the silk boxers I put there for him. While he was showering, I set up his bedroom with candles, a Frank Sinatra Greatest Love Hits CD, and massage oils. Then, I hid in the closet and the clue lead him from the shower to his bedroom. The bedroom clue said something like, ';Lie on your bed and close your eyes, when you open them up, there's a big surprise!'; When he opened up his eyes, I was there in sexy lingirie with massage oils...and I gave him a really nice massage.





Girls like things that require thought (flowers are sweet...but they don't take much effort on your part). We want to feel loved and appreciated. It's the little things that really mean the most to us! Don't forget that and good luck!!!
This really shouldn't be taken lightly. As you progress in a relationship and think about where its going and what makes you happy, you begin to realize that things that seem to start as a small issue (like affection) can snowball into something very significant. Seems to me a need was there and communicated to you, but it wasn't important enough until she left you. Everyone has different needs and if your're not willing to fulfill them, then you're with the wrong person. Obviously your girlfriend began to realize that.