Need relationship advice?

my boyfriend and i had a talk last night. a serious one. he is the sweetest guy but his phone was always off and he would cancel our plans without telling me. he always had a valid reason. i dont know if it is just that he doesnt get it or if he is purposely doing it.





i broke up with him last night. i wasnt ready to. i am still so in love and so is he. we decided to stay together because we are happy when we are together. its just when he does these stupid things we arent happy. he isnt very romantic or passionate but he says he loves me so much.





i believe him.....but im afraid he will never give me what i need.





am i stupid for staying?? we both cannot picture our lives with anyone else.Need relationship advice?
Love is which returns back to you, if he returns he is all yours and if not then you made a mistake in choosing the right partner.....well, there may be valid reasons but not everytime it may happen, ther may be an ';atleast'; limit for picking your phone and making you feel love, so moral just be patient and leave him for a week or two, lets see if he comes back and explains you everything...if not then forget him, you may still have better loving people around you...so all d bestNeed relationship advice?
you should clear out topics with him...





the best advice is communication...





without it is impossiple for a relationship to survive...





tell him that he should tell you in advance when he needs to cancel any plans...





and to call you back when he's phone is off...
That's hard :/


You have to do what you think is best for you, and you sorta sound like you're doubting your relationship with him. Relationships, serious ones, are not made for doubts, and so I think you need to reflect on WHAT you love about your relationship with him. You also need to tell him that if he wants to be with you, he needs to be more sensitive, and stop leaving his phone off and cancelling plans.





Good luck! :)
u r actually smart for staying because that shows your love for him tell him that he needs to be a lil more passionate about things showing that he cares for you both of you should find ways to show ur love in a non-sexual way
i know what you mean... i have a girlfiend and can't pictue her with anyone else but me and yet every time we try to break up the breaking up gets canceled
If you really believe he loves you then the two of you have to work together to come up with a plan that both can accept. He need to turn his phone on or put it on viberate, and he need to do better at remembering plans. You need to remind him. My husband was like that although not as bad. He would forget but he does not turn his phone off so I could always reach him. Things got a lot better after we got married because he's always there. I would remind him a day before of the plans we made. And every weekend we would discuss our plans. And sometimes, I just have to accept that he just forgot and move on.
i was in the exact same position a few years ago- after 4 years i realized he just doesnt have passion in him like i do and he doesnt feel the need for romance like i do, and it hurt to leave but i found a guy who is in to all of that and it was SO the right move. Don't settle for less than you want. Being picky and expecting more are two very different things.
If you are going to trust what he says ,then you have to do that. If you are in question of his loyalty, tell him. Its a common courtesy to call and or be available to the one you are committed to. Maybe he doesn't have this mature social skill developed yet. You are not stupid you are being cautious, Keep a good boundary, and you will be fine.