Friend/relationship advice..? please help!?

okay.. so wow this is gonna be a long question.





i've been friend with ';kara'; for like two years. we went to different junior highs but hung out on weekends and got to be way tight and i started hanging out with her and her friends. she liked this kid ';luke'; for like a week and then they were together. thats just how her life goes if she likes a guy they automatically like her back :P bleh. anyway haha so she had told me about him a lot and i finally met him at the end of school last year and he was so nice and so friendly and right away i knew i was falling for him but i was trying not to and all summer we texted till like four in the morning and all day while we were at work and stuff. but i just kept telling myself that we were just freinds but i really think it was more than that. and like sometimes he would invite me to hang out at his house and not invite kara..





so now we're in high school and i see them all the time and at first it was great but kara sees luke and i together a lot and she realized that i like him so much. we text a lot too and like hang out and have a crazy awesome time but kara just wants luke to sit on the couch and cuddle and he doesn't want to he wants to like run around and flirt and not be boring. so now, she won't let me be alone with him. ever. if luke and i are talking she just stands there to make sure nothing happens. gay? yes it is.





i wouldnt even believe she would do that but she's talked to other people about it and like seriously i haven't talked to him alone in like a week unless its texting. and its so akward when i'm with kara because she wants to act like we are best friends and stuff but i can't make myself act like that so it makes her mad and just makes things worse!





i wish i could just stop liking luke but its so hard cuz i've liked him so much for so long aghh. this sucks. :( kara keeps saying luke likes her but like she has always been kinda a liar so i dont know if i really believe her. also like i would just ask him but how would i do that without sounding weird? it just seems like so elementry schoolish..





anyway what should i do? any help is awesome cuz so far i am just ignoring it and its just getting worse. its like breaking my heart in two places cuz i love kara and we have been friends for so long and i really really like luke and he acts like he likes me!Friend/relationship advice..? please help!?
Well you should Just ask him if he really likes her,


'Cause from what your saying , it seems like he doesn't.


And if she was a good friend she wouldn't care about you being alone with him, and she would trust you.


Its your Choice in the end, but you should do what you want, Hang out with this luke kid when you want to and don't let her tell you what to do. If she tells to to bug off, tell her no.


Its 'Luke's' and your choice if you guys want to hang out. Not hers.


Friend/relationship advice..? please help!?
she was your friends boyfriend, in girl world he's off limits forever. either dump the boy or dump your friend. cause you can't have both.
put it behind you
You all got problems........get an education
Chicks before d**ks. Seriously I was in your same situation and it's not worth losing your best friend. I lost mine for three years and now I finally have her back and it was all because of my ';super great boyfriend';. Just explain it to Luke and Try to fix thisngs with Kara. I hope this helps even though I know it will be hard if you do it.
Talk to your high school counselor. They can usually help you sort this stuff out. Or you could even commit the highest of teenager sins...talk to your parents about it! (cue dramatic music). Look, in reality this is just a bunch of high school drama. What is more important to you, some guy you have a crush on, or your best friend? It doesn't seem that hard to figure this one out. This whole thing is extremely childish, you wanna know why? Because you are still practically a child. You are in high school, get an education. Don't let this stupid **** distract you, just focus on your studies, get into a good college, study some more and get a life.