Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Serious relationship advice only!!!?

Ok me and my gf took a break 6 weeks ago we had been together 2 months she left her ex for me. The reason she wanted the break is because she stil wasnt over her ex and doesnt want to risk hurtin me more before we get serious. So its been 6 weeks and aparently i keep trying to pressure her but im sick of being in limbo. We both say we love each other we knew each other for years b4 this and always had a thing. She says she wants to get back with me when shes ready. Her and her ex were about to get engaged when she left him. So what do i do ive waited 6 weeks i could have slept with other people but i feel i helped make this mess and i owe it to her to wait for either decision. Its driving me nuts tho btw! Am i being stupid or am i right to wait even tho i dont know what shes tryin to do?Serious relationship advice only!!!?
I bet that she is just as confused and torn as you are. I understand that you are going through many emotions but I think she is too. She's trying to figure out what she wants to do. From what I read in your question, it seems that she doesn't want to hurt you. Maybe she wants to be sure of her feelings before she moves on.





Do you know the feeling of when you're being rushed? You worry about the deadline, or how everyone is waiting for you. Because of this, you can't fully concentrate on something and tend to mess up or get confused. That might be how she's feeling when you rush her.





I would say that you should give her another 2-3 weeks without pressuring her to make a choice. When that time ends, confront her and talk to her. If you really are serious with her, you shouldn't even be thinking about sleeping around with other people. But anyways, after that amount of time, try to get her to talk about her feelings and what she is deciding right now. Be patient. Girls can be emotional.Serious relationship advice only!!!?
give up...... its her loss ifs shes leading ye on u b d first to walk away b4 she dose......iv been in a relationship lyk dat b4 nd belive me walk b4 its 2 late.........ill hve ye if ye want

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