I need help...relationship advice...?

well, i dated this guy and then he dumped me, he said that it was because me thinking of suicide made him think of suicide..i dont think about suicide any more...i really liked him, and i still do...my friends are telling me that when they talk to some of their other friends that also happen to be some of his friends, they tell them that he is always talking about really liking me, but he doesn't know. i just don't know either...i mean, there were problems, he smokes pot, and after a while of me getting used to hanging around him 24/7 and going to his house like every day, he stopped hanging around me as much and started hanging with his friends, he also told me to stop calling him very often towards the end...but he took me on my first date, we dated for 2 months after knowing each other for quite a while and hanging out a lot, he took me to a dance and we had the time of our lives, and he spent like $100 on me for my b-day. he bought me a big bouquet of roses and carnations, and a new pair of tennis shoes because i needed some. he wrote a poem for me too....well, i need advice, should i go start talking to him again and see if we would work out, or is the smoking pot and stuff just too much and should i just give up and forget about him???I need help...relationship advice...?
OH MY GOD WILL SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME A TYLENOL!!!I need help...relationship advice...?
i dont disregard your feelings towards him,.. but i think its sometimes better to leave the past behind you and move forward.





i think you should seek to find someone else, someone better for you.


i mean this guy dumped you., plus the pot smoking.... are you prepared to put up with all that again?


it seems to me that he will just be dragging you down.


i mean you have overcome the suicide, and (well done), and are better now. he's still doing his ';pot'; and stuff...





i mean... i know he did some nice things for you that had a lasting impression on you, but is that enough.?? ...





i don't know... i can only go by the information you provided.


you know him better than i do, so it is really a decision you have to weigh out, and make at the end of the day.





i hope you make the right one. i wish you well.
don' ever give up on a boy you love.


but, it has to bee real love. not the


fake shi*tt you see on TV. but, tell him


to his fave. NEVR through friendss.


but, the whole smoking pott thing doesn't


sound to good. get him some help ... or


jus forget about him. and life is a present


from god. don' think about killing yourself


again. your prob. young. and there


is way more to life than cute boys and


being popular. :)





hope i helped, hun. x


鈾?brittknee.
the smoking pot thing really should be a deal breaker for you, not so much just because of the drug itself, but because of the people he comes into contact with getting the drug,


trust me, there's a WAYYYYYY better guy out there for you





The friends he wanted to hang out with instead of you were probbaly his pot friends, %26amp; you wouldn't want to be wit dem anywayz
Whatever you do, don't give up. That doesn't necessarily mean get back together with him. I recommend just hanging out with everybody, you never know if someone else is going to come into your life. His habits don't seem healthy for anyone from what you have said, but that is your judgment. All I can say is that money does not buy happiness and if I were you, I would just let things settle before trying to work things out with him again. Good Luck!