Please Help! Relationship advice needed, amd I being a fool?

I started dating this guy 4 months ago, during the time he had a baby on the way and he was a little down because his baby mother was not speaking to him. She put him thru hell allowing him to come see his baby being born. Anyway now that the baby is here his baby's mom spends the weekends at his house, she spends the night and while she is there he will call me when he steps away from her. He tells me that the only reason she is over there is so that he he can spend time with his daughter. He tells me that he does not want her to take the baby away from him so until he can get the baby legitimized he has to allow her to spend the wekend over his place. Now I am there mainly thru out the week and we have a good time together.... a few days ago his baby mama was playin in his phone and she ended up cllling me telling that he tells her he is using me for money and they he is telling her he wants to be with her, I didnt tell her we were sleeping together becuz I dont want to mess anything up with him seeing his baby. I am just wondering why does she have to spend the whole weekend and every weekend since the baby is only 7 weeks old????





I really dont think he is lying to me about not wanting her becuz she did him so wrong when she was pregnant. What do yal think?Please Help! Relationship advice needed, amd I being a fool?
What you need to do is ask him to his face whether what she said is true or not. Tell him what she said, then get the truth. I don't think he lying either, because if he does want her, then he'd have no reason to keep you around. You don't have the baby. So he is probably just lying to her to keep from fighting, in which case you should let it go until he gets the baby. But this could be totally off. People are not always logical about relationships.





All you can really do is try to strengthen your relationship with him. And show him your support and comfort.





And if this backfires, don't yell at me. I'm only sixteen.Please Help! Relationship advice needed, amd I being a fool?
well chances are hes cheating on you and you should try staying the night when his baby's momma is there so you can make sure nothing is happening
He wants his cake and ice cream too. He plans on gettin back with her. Save yourself the heartache and let him go
walk away from the drama now. you deserve better.
hunnie i know this sucks, but either he is both tellin yall the same things and he wants to have two girlfriends or she is just jealous and wants him to herself. you need to kill this thou. u need to decide if your okay with dealin with this, and it worth it or move on. my advice is to move on, he obviously didnt know how to use a condom and he is probably doin somethin behind your back, but instead of writing on yahoo you need to be talkin about this with him. tell him how you feel and only then can you make the decision for yourself.