Friday, April 30, 2010

I Need Some Relationship Advice. Should I just wait it out?

I've started to fall for this girl, M, who I became good friends with after winter break. Now, of course the day before I plan to ask her out, she gets into a relationship with someone, and I don't know who.


She seems to still like me, but from what I've figured she must've gotten tired of waiting for me to ask her out. I don't know what to do anymore, because I've had other interests in other girls, but she just keeps popping up in my head.


My friend said I should just wait it out, because most high school relationships, especially in freshman year, don't last too long. I want to change that theory with her, but since she's dating someone else its impossible for me at the moment.


I DO NOT plan on taking her away from her boyfriend, cheating with her, or anything with bad morality involved like that. I just want to know what others would do in my situation.


So, should I wait it out or just move on?I Need Some Relationship Advice. Should I just wait it out?
Hi. Personally I would tell her how you feel. I think if you don't tell her now she would never know how you felt. No harm in letting her know because it doesn't suggest you wanting to steal her away from the bf. She might appeciate your honesty, If she doesn't feel the same way then you're feel to move on and you can be proper friends. Don't regret things you never did in your life okie?I Need Some Relationship Advice. Should I just wait it out?
If you can't get her out of your head, then wait. That doesn't mean you can't talk to other girls and see if there's someone else out there for you, it just means keep being her friend, be there when she needs you.


I know from experience,there was a guy that i wish had done this for me.
both. i know that sounds confusing but continue to get to know her and other girls better without pursuing anything. that way you can see if you are interested in any other girls or if this girl is worth waiting for. you are only a freshman so plenty of girls will come and go and the ones that you stay closest to are your good girl friends.
You need to follow your heart. If you are still smitten, and can't find anyone else, then you just wait it out, and stay friends. If you can, it may be better to move on, find another love interest. You can still remain friends with #1, and if the cosmos deems that you two should be together, you will.
I think you schould tell her how you feal. if she feels the same way, great. If she doesn't then move on. I'm guessing that the girl didn't know you liked her so she moved on. But if you tell her you are interested, it might change her mind. what's the worse that can happen
I would definately tell her how I feel and even if she doesnt respond with what you wanted to hear..at least you told her and got it off ur chest! Sorry that she found someone..that would suck! But There is still hope for you..You dont have to wait but i would at least tell her..:))


GOOD LUCK!
I'd say move on BUT don't make it a serious issue. Move on and keep talking to her maybe she'll get jealous and want you in her life. Then again, maybe you'll find someone else just waiting for you in her place. ;)
i think you should wait it out it seems like you really like this girl and ur friend is right highschool relationships do not last long..but if its been a couple months i think u should move on you shouldnt wait that long for a girl...
i think you should tell her how you feel. i have been with my boyfriend since my freshman year of high school and i am now in my second year in college. be honest with her. some high school relationships work.
just wait. yall are friends so just hang out as friends til her relationship fizzles. things happen for a reason. also if its meant to be between you two it will happen.


oh yeah and dont hesitate to date other girls!


good luck!
Move on. They are a whole bunch of other girls out there that you can date. Trust you might just want to keep trying it out. :D
ive been there and id wait it out they are right not many high school relationships work for long stick it out and wait if you really like this girl
i'd say to just tell her how you feel and see what happens becuase if she likes you and not the other guy then she is just waisting the other guys times.
If you like her that much. You will wait, because you know she is worth the wait. Good luck! =D
Move on, Don't waste your time waiting for a girl.
wait it out. she seems worth while if you keep thinking of her.
if u wanna wait for her [=
This is insane. I'm in the same exact situation, but I'm in ';M';'s place.


There's a guy who really liked me but waited too long to ask me out, so I started dating someone else. I think you should wait it out for a little while if she's that important to you. Let her know that you like her and that you really regret not asking her out sooner. If she seems to start losing interest in her boyfriend and acting like she likes you more, then wait a while longer. If not, then maybe you should give up.
if you like her like you say you do


and no matter who you seem to like she keeps poppin into you head....your not gonna move on that easliy


I say continue to be good friends with her like you were.





it would be good for you to at the least express your feeling for her wit out expecting her to say much in return because agian she has a bf





but her knowin YOU ACTUALLY do like her


an assuming you will b still b kewl with her and treat her no differently





then you wld b the first to get her attention when her relationship ends.
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