Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need relationship advice...this guy is sooo unreadable. PLEASE HELP?

I'm in college and i have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We've never gone out to lunch, we've never done more than make out even tho i know he is not a virgin. He says he really likes me and i like him. I sleep over at his house about once a week. We usually just hang out with his friends or go out to partys.





On easter he did give me a flower...picked from a garden tho lol and he bought me a concert ticket once too. But he NEVER texts or calls me unless he wants to hang out. Sometimes he'll say he'll call and he wont and when i text him he NEVER replies.





I dont know what to do. We just got over a fight because i got mad that he doesnt pay me enough attention. He didnt seem real upset when we were fighting...he didnt beg for me back or anything- i was the one who missed him. But when i did make up with him he was really happy.





Still nothing has changed-i still feel unwanted. He said he would call me to hangout lastnight but he never did-when i asked him what he was doing he was drunk. i feel like a psycho ***** always bringing the whole attention up to him. like i know were not together but still... does he like me or not? wtf!?!?!





ps and he ignored my message on his wall on facebook but replied to his exgirlfriends...grrrrrI need relationship advice...this guy is sooo unreadable. PLEASE HELP?
Rule #1: Anything you chase in life runs away.





Think about guys who liked you, called you all the time, text you, etc. You thought they were nice, maybe even a lil attracted, but it was just too easy. Guys like a CHASE! Give it to him. Ignore him for a bit. Change your pattern. He's used to you always calling/texting him, so STOP. It will blow his mind, and sooner (or later... it could take days to a few weeks) he will contact you. I PROMISE. Don't be so available. If he does call and wants to see you... tell him you're going out. I know it will kill... trust me, I've been there. But it will make him realize he has to set a time and commit to something with you. He can't just always get what he wants, cuz then he wont value you and your time.I need relationship advice...this guy is sooo unreadable. PLEASE HELP?
Don't try to hard to figure him LOL!! It's ok tho. Boys can be very shy and unpredictable. But maybe try talking to him one on one about how you guys feel but don't drive him away!! Just give it more time sweeti!!
UGH!! I want to slap him. This boy doesn't give a rats *** about you. He just wants to play. Dump his sorry *** and find a guy who will treat you like a princess.
this guy does not like a committed relationship but is stringing you along keeping you as security blanket. hes letting the chips fall apart on its own you knew.
PLay hard to get if you really want to see if he likes you don`t pay any attention to him and if he keeps coming around then you know he likes you.... PRay for him ANd yourslef and me....
Have u tried to massage his sock monkey? Buy him beer, feed him, and play sock monkey%26gt; All the things a growing boy needs,,,
He may just not want a commitment right now and doesn't know how to tell you straight out.


Or he may be hiding something and doesn't want to get close to you or anyone.


Or he may be a serial killer. They act real strange like you are describing him... I would break off this wierd relationship by playing like you are real busy. Watch your back. I don't trust him. Don't be alone with him anymore.


Good luck...

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