I need relationship advice!?

ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3years now and were both students so don't live together as we cant afford it, but recently we've been seeing less of each other because work and college is quite demanding, we have both noticed how distant we hav become and even our physical relationship is beginning to suffer which makes us feel even more distant. we have always seen plenty of each other before now so this is new to us, we both really care and love each other and want to fix this before it gets worse, any ideas on how we can make the time we do spend together more fun and interesting? we don't drive and cant afford to go out the hole time and we live in our parents houses, i no its a difficult one!! but we need help if we want to save our relationship, which we do!!I need relationship advice!?
Aww this sounds EXACTLY like me and my boyfriend when we were at uni.





Its a brilliant start that you both want to be together...if thats the case you WILL get through this. You'l look back and think..wow that was a tough few months, but we made it. If you made it through 3 yrs bein in a relationship, with all the temptation at uni...you'l survive :)





What me and my bf did to spend more time together...


Ok this may sound sad but we actually studied together. Go to your seperate classes as normal, then why dont u meet up in the eveving...say he comes to yours and you cook for him.. or he has dinner with ur family or whatever. Then go upto the room, study for say 2or 3 hrs, whatever it takes and relax together for an hour..watch tv, whatever. I remember doin that with my bf, and just him bein there helped...tryin to stay awake before final yr exams together actually helped us bond even more!





If this is too time consuming, you could simply meet up for lunch between classes. I dont know how far you live from eachother so this could be difficult?





Another option is to have one night, just ONE a week where its all about you two. Say a sunday or monday when uni work isnt really a priority. Go for a meal, or a walk, or the cinema, or just do what you used to do!





There are loads of things really, but as i say, im not sure how far you live from eachother or at what stage of uni you are at. Just hang in there, uni will pass you by so quick and all the pain will have been worth it! :)


I need relationship advice!?
Just do simple things together if you would really like to build up on the relationship.





before yous start any physical contact have a meal together, play an intelectual game of scrabble together connect on an intelectual level take interest in each others studies.





listen to each other when yous talk.
Really if you care about each other as much as you say it will work out. In the mean time go out with your other friends too, don't limit yourself.
You sound as though you both want to make it work, that is a good start. Try spending time together such as weekends, have one weekend when you plan what to do then next is his turn. Yes you could go out and spend loads of money, but isn't a viable option. How about going to seaside, have fun fly a kite, give each other 20p to put in the penny machines, have a picnic on beach. Remember it has nothing to do with what you do it is all about who you do it with, its your time together to rekindle the feelings. Try and think of things you use to enjoy doing as a couple.


Hope am of help, good luck.