PLEASE GUYS I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE? i know its long but advice would be really appreciated?

My boyfriend had a family member and two friends pass away in one day. He went to the airport to pick up his mom and he would call me i wil call you when he got home. When he got back he sent me a message trough msn. And i was a little mad (i know im clingy) and asked him how come he didnt call me. He just said please dont start giving me attitude not today.





And we argued because i was just looking for an answer and he just ignored me and told me you need to apologize. The next day i wrote him and he ignored me again, and last night i begged him to meet me (he lives right next to me) in the parking lot to resolve the issue and he just completely ignored me and acted like he didnt even care he kept saying leave me alone i dont have anything to say to you. When he finally met me outside after me begging me many times he was just being an ahole ignoring me, and when i talked he just turned his face and laughed sarcasticaly. He said that i had gone to far this time messing with his dead relatives, which sounds absurd because all i did was ask him, yeah i know i had an attittude but he doesnt have to exagerate the issue.





He was being so mean and cold when i was trying to explain things to him that i was going to apologize but his coldness just left me without words. So i just left and went back to my house. I cant beleive how cold he is being just because he wants an apology.





So my question is i dont have a problem apologizing, but is it even worth it? Because he really is acting like he is just fed up and tired of me.PLEASE GUYS I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE? i know its long but advice would be really appreciated?
By now you should know that nagging and badgering people when they鈥檙e not in the mood to talk, you will only make things worse. People are different than you are and sometimes they need some personal time for grief and many other reasons. The adult thing to do is give them the space they need.


We don鈥檛 know the nature of the texts you two exchanged, but if you said anything cold to him, then you do owe him an apology. Nevertheless, you still need to show how sad you are for his loss.


To regain respect, you must make the necessary apologies and back off. Create a distance that will give him some personal time and enough for him to remember how good he had it. The worst thing you could do is pursue him at this stage. Don鈥檛 come down to your knees or you will always be taken for granted鈥RIDE, STRENGTH AND HONORPLEASE GUYS I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE? i know its long but advice would be really appreciated?
Yes, you are very clingy and in this sad time he won't appreciate your negative attitude. give him some space and some time.
Wow, your really a selfish person. All you think about is me me me when he was having a difficult week. If you were my girlfriend I would B-slap you!
SELFISH! give him time. think of what it would be like if you were in his position
Give him some time, it might be that he just does not know how to deal with his emotions over losing his loved ones. He might be in denial, or he may be taking his anger out on you. Either way, just let him be for now, if you feel you need to apologize, send him a card with a simple apology, and don't go into details.





With the recent loss, he really doesn't need anyone pressing him right now. Everyone grieves in their own way, and it is going to take him some time to get over what happened.





Be patient.