I Need Relationship Advice. Why Am I Thinking About Females When I Love This Guy And I'm So Happy?

I'm in a very happy, and fulfilling relationship with an amazing man. Our sex life is also great, and satisfying. We have been together for seven months now and we are engaged. I have a problem though. I am bisexual and I greatly prefer females. About a week ago, we weren't having a lot of sex, and I was very horny and ended up thinking about having sex with a female. I didn't imagine anyone in particular though. I blew this off, because I thought it was because I was so horny.





We've had sex since then, and I'm satisfied, but today when I was on a friends myspace I thought about doing things with her. So, I know this is more then just a fantasy I had when I was horny.





What the hell is going on? I love my fiancee, and I'm happy. I want it to be only me and him, I don't want to go out and have sex with my ex-girlfriend, but I do regret never having sex with her.





I feel really bad for imaging this, and I'm hoping it's my raging hormones since I'm only 18. The first time I imagined this I told my fiancee and he didn't get upset and was understanding, I feel as though this is unfair to him.





Can anyone give me any advice of what the hell to do?





Thank you, and very sorry this was so long.I Need Relationship Advice. Why Am I Thinking About Females When I Love This Guy And I'm So Happy?
because your either eager for sex or you are a bisexual.I Need Relationship Advice. Why Am I Thinking About Females When I Love This Guy And I'm So Happy?
okay now.... if you really cant break up with you BOY, than just get over it. hopefully its just a phase. have MORE sex with him and get happier, you will be happier and hopefully pregnat!!! good luck
first of all, a 18 year old should not be getting married.
OK you need to view this from a perspective of simple right and wrong. If you want to do the right thing, you can't argue semantics. There is no justification to cheating. I don't care how h*rny you are, or how badly you ';want some';. If you want more sex, tell HIM THIS, and make him do you 1,2, 3 times a day if need be! But don't get with a female, and try your best to stop thinking about it.





All people get urges, but try to ignore wrongful urges. The more you entertain the thought, the more likely you are to do the wrong thing you are thinking of!





Call it the bad guy in your conscience, call it human nature, call it sin, call it the devil speaking in your ear, i dont care. Whatever it is, it's something bad in our human nature that speaks to us and tries to convince us to do bad sh*t like that. And whatever the f*ck it is, the only option we have- if we want to stay moral and just and right and good- is to SAY NO!





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Remember: Relationships are about more than sex. You don't need to have sex every day, or else you go and cheat. Guess what babe? I'm 17, and I'm still in high school, I'm not engaged! I'm also a guy, and dating this awesome girl. Guess what? We have sex hmm maybe once a week if we're lucky. She works and she's busy as hell. She's not the most ';sexually active'; person. Well guess what? I could have sex as much as I want with slightly less attractive, slightly more sl*tty girls! But I DON'T! You know why? Because I know that would be wrong! If I ever get an urge so bad that I cant control it, I'll just masturbate. And I think of her while I do it.





so if worse comes to worst, just masturbate and think of your man. good luck and good day! =) best answer plz

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