I need relationship advice!?

I have a feeling that my boyfriend of 4 years is going to ask me to marry him soon. I don't want him to because though he is the love of my life and my best friend, I can't see myself being romantically happy with him. He used to be a big romancer back in the day but now that we live together, all we do when we spend time together is watch tv or go to a dinner and a movie. BORING!!! I'm only 21 and I know that I probably could find someone else that excites me, but I also don't want to break up with my guy because I do love him and I want to believe that he can change. Does anyone have any advice for me how I can talk him into wanting to change for me? I've tried talking to him and even threatened to leave if he didn't but no luck. I know he loves me but I feel he's just comfortable not having to prove anything to me anymore. Please help...my whole life is on the line...I need relationship advice!?
to be honest with you, most relationships are not going to be exciting forever. especially if you're wanting to eventually get married and be with someone for the rest of your life. you have to find ways to make it exciting if you want it to be. you can't leave it all up to him. i'm perfectly happy married at 21 with my husband and he's probably the most boring person that i know. but i still love him just as much as i did when i met him. if it's really about not wanting to get married, just tell him no. you don't need to rush into anything right now. but i really would try harder to get out there and make your relationship more exciting because you never know what you might have missed out on.I need relationship advice!?
he wants a life long commitment,


you don't,


you leave, you being selfish is not fair to him





life as you know is about to change
He shouldn't change for you, If he changes at all, it should be for him. You either accept him as he is or move on and stop wasting his time and yours. It's not fair for you to expect someone to change into what you want them to be...how would you feel if someone wanted you to change for them, so they'd dig you enough to marry you? That would mean, they weren't really into the person you actually are...
You can let him know that you love him but feel like you are too young to make a decision yet for the rest of your life. And wile you are at talking, you can tell him too that you would like to go out more, spend time with friends and develop interests toghether or on your own. Good Luck.
Relax,,,It is 4 years,,that's a long time,,so you have been with him since your teenage yrs. Imagine being with him for 10 more. You need to remind yourself the things that attracted you to him in the first place. The men he is. Many women here wished they had the problem you are describing. Men usually go out with the guys and wives usually get angry at the amound of time they spend outside the home. I see you both need to communicate better and to do something (maybe a mini vacation) to spark the romance right back into the realtionship...I wish you luck.
Before living together is romantic, then during usually not. Everyday life is different, it brings cooking, cleaning, bills and so go on. Your boyfriend looks OK. If you believe next man in your life will be different, you can be very disappointed. Again before will be romantic and later not. Try to be realistic, but it is really hard in your age. If you love him and he loves you there is usually no place for to be boring. Love comes and goes, so If you have different style of life, different expectation, different character and interests there is time to decide if you belongs together now and quickly, before kids will come. And only you can decide about to stay together with him, nobody else. Taking decision try to remember: this days is not easy to find just a good guy.
so why are you wasting his time ? what do you expect him to do a 3 ring circus for you every night? i love to stay home in bed and watch a movie and get some take out with my sweetheart. occasionally we go to a club with Friends .but you can't expect excitement 24 -7 its just not to realistic.


you are 21 so regardless i would tell you to wait a while to get married anyway but i think you don't have a realistic idea of it. and he shouldn't have to change for you. i know you said he was a big romancer back in the day but you cant expect romance all the time.
first, you are far too young to be in a relationship, let alone a marriage, so be open about that, and honest with yourself too. Take your time and identify what you want in a relationship, as well as what you have to offer, which can take a while. Then find ways to meet those ideals. That would be far better than faking everything, especially in a marriage.





Good luck!
Ahhh...the beauty of a relationship that knows itself. Quite different from the honey moon period isn't it?


Best thing to do figure out what you want from him, by that I mean what are your needs and wants in the relationship. Make a list and tell him about it, also have him make a list of his wants and needs. Then start filling those wants and needs, one night a week or two or whatever your budget will allow you.


Another good idea is get some relationship counselling to help open your communication.





p.s. quit threatening to leave, that's just not nice.
Well guess what the next relationship may hold the same all fun and games then reality. Maybe you can set the stage for romance, why not!!. The Next relationship will have the same hot start and then simmer down, I know a lot of couples who share the same story. It may be that you are not ready for marriage yet. I was engaged for 8 years before getting married and lived together before the engagement. Same story hot to start then simmered down. Life is what you make out of it I wish my wife would introduce some romance into our marriage, but marriage is for better or for worse in sickness and in health for richer or poorer till death do us part. Both of you have to put more into a relationship than you take from it that way things will work out. Good luck and best wishes!!!
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