I need some relationship advice ASAP?

So I have been talking to a very nice guy online and I met him on an online game about a year and a half ago. He is really nice and I have a major problem.


1. He has a girlfriend.


2. I think he has feelings for me or at least pretends to


3. I have only showed him pics of my face but ot my body because I am very overweight. I am ashamed and I feel like I lied to him.


4. He wants to come to NY and all but I do not want to hurt his feelings.... what should I do? I do not want to meet him just yet and I hate it that he wants to see my body :( . He said I had a nice face :)I need some relationship advice ASAP?
if he really likes you then he will like you for who you are and not by the way you look :)I need some relationship advice ASAP?
Okay, so this guy is obviously trash. He has a girlfriend and yet he is so willing to chat up random girls online for his own personal pleasure. Don't associate with this person because you deserve better. Do you really want to try to develop a relationship with a guy who is obviously not trustworthy since he is already lying to his current girlfriend? If he is willing to do that to her, why wouldn't he be willing to do the same thing to you? He sounds like a pig. Block him online. Don't talk to him. He is probably coming to visit you because he is expecting sex. Run away!
look, the thing about online is you don't the other person. you've been knowing for a while so that's not a problem. Though, you should still be careful. If he has a girlfriend and he's hinting you that he likes you then that's' not right. you shouldn't play along with him when he already has a girlfriend. Also, he's coming to new york. I'm guessing you live there? Just make sure that you don't meet with him by yourself. and I can't really explain, but only you know who and how he is so you should be careful.
Number one should give you your answer right away, and the fact that it didn't tells me that you are about to get in trouble. Planning to show your body to a guy you only know online is trouble, and if you go through with this, you are going to mess up. Please don't do this. Make an excuse, don't be home, whatever, but don't do it. The news is full of stories about planned meetings and bodies are later found. I don't care how nice he is, they are all nice until they get you where they want you. Do NOT do this!
Okay.





1. Online relationships, in most cases, do not work beyond behind a computer.


2. He has a girlfriend, end of story.


3. There is no way round it, if you want to meet him, he's going to have to see what you look like, real life relationships require face to face contact.





In a nutshell, this is all a bad idea.
Do not worry about your body. If he does not want to be with you over that, then hunny he anit worth it. Also just tell him that you are not ready to meet yet. And if he is a good guy then he will understand and give you the time that you need. Good Luck.
I don't see it working out. I'm sorry but there a lot of flaws plus you haven't ever even seen him. If weight will make him dislike you then you could do better.











please answer mine
-I personally don't think you should agree to meet anyone from online.





-You shouldn't feel bad because of your body. You can't help it! If he doesn't like you because of your body, he's scum and nothing more. You'll find someone better.
no offense but , NO GUYS OFFLINE ! lol %26amp; sweetheart if your pretty %26amp; he doesn't like your weight move along , just tell him how you feel about your self .. i weigh 189 and guys still like me (: haha most beautiful people are overweight, all those skinny little brats need to go eat a candy bar ! don't put your self down !
You aren't being honest and up front with him. A worst case scenario is meeting and him walking out on you. Happens a lot. Don't set yourself up for that. Be honest. He may like what he sees. At least give him the chance.
seriously! you toldhimwhere you live?!?!?!?!!?!?!? thats insane! dont let him see you, your not supposed to see ppl u meet online, dont do it!!!! somethiung might happen to you!please!
don't be insecure about your body first.


if your confident, he wont even realize anything ';wrong';





but if he has a girlfriend, why don't you let him sort that out.


you don't want to be the other woman do you?
show him for one if he goes to you to see that you lied then he will be pied. but he may like you for who you are so tell him the truth.
He has a girlfriend and you lied about your weight. Great foundation for a relationship. You two deserve each other.
Looks aren't everything, and if he cares that you are overweight then he is a jerk to the extreme. :] I hope things work out. I would tell him though.
look hun theres no need to be ashamed of your body.


and all he wants is a ';bootycall';


trust me there are way better guys


that aren't major douche bags.


and that are single.
Never send your picture to some strange guy. Only talk to people you meet over Youtube because you know there them. (I know I sound like your mom but trust me) And don't get involved he has a girlfriend
look if you ain't ready to meet him yet tell him just tell him The truth
its not WOW is it? lol





Anyways, if he truly likes you then he would not care what you body looks like.
well then tell him that u are not ready to see him yet and in the end u need to tell him how u feel about urself
I don't think that's very safe... If you're pushed that far, talk to him on


the phone? He has a girlfriend already so...
get a boyfriend you DIDNT meet offline
stop talking to him cause thats messed up
Girl, God made you beautiful the way you are. Don't worry about him because from how you describe he sounds either like a horny little boy or a player. Heck, probably both. Take a full-body pic of yourself (with clothes on, mind you... get your minds out of the gutter man!) and show it to him online. If he doesn't like it, he's not worth it. But do be sure that if you do want to meet him in person, make sure he brings the girlfriend along or tells the girlfriend. Save your conversations, they'll come in handy for future references if anything goes down. Good luck, and watch out, because if he has a gf and talks to you like that, how do you think he's gonna do with you if YOU become the GIRLFRIEND in this picture? You'll be that girlfriend in the same cycle.
Not such a good idea with online stuff relationships. We all know that people are different behinda screen, the security of a key board and a screen between people makes them a little braver and confidence - unless when you absolutely know this person well, but yu just met this guy on a game.





Don't be ashamed of yurself, because tat inspires others to think the same, yu are who yu are no one else. And IF yur so worried about yur weight then just - on yur OWN will and yur wishes - set yurself a goal to lose a REASONABLE amout of weight in a week or two - don't do it for anyone else but yu, if it makes yu more confident then do it! (and by reasonble i mean 2 - 3.5 kg for 2 weeks, I managed a little more than that and it feels great!)





Be smart about who yu fall for, and look out for yuself: yu don't need a psycho behind yu!
Body doesn't matter to him because if it did he wouldn't mention going to NY to see you unless he saw your body before. He complimented you and he knows your personality which is why you get along so well. I think you know him more than I do and he seems like an honest and genuine guy who wouldn't offend a girl so if you're that close to him since you talk a lot online then he probably won't care about your body just as long as you're the person he met online. Remeber you didn't lie you just didn't confess to him. I hope I helped.





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