I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!!!!!!?

Basically me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months and then 1 day after i hav'nt seen her in a week she completely ignores me and basically pretends i don't exist....Then after a while she(out of nowhere starts talking to me like nothings happened.??? I asked what was up?? and she said it didnt matter.... and after hours of prying i eventually give up :( later that week she sends me a text about how she really wants a tattoo. btw she is 16(im 17)..... i ask more questions about the topic and find out that she is trying to hide this from her parents and is going to some random tattoo parlor on the other side of town... any normal person would have seen tons of flaws in that plan. like the tattoo stretching, fights with her parents and infection.. that sort of stuff. I give all those reasons and she completely ignores them... i get frustrated and ask the question again ''Why didnt you talk to me a few days ago'' and she said ''because i was a little interested in someone else'' she replied. ''But not anymore'' she soon added. She says she loves me again and is now sending me tons of messages.. Personally i want an adult relationship and she is being really really childish about everythng!!!!


PLEASE I NEED HELP....ANY SUGGESTIONS?I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!!!!!!?
yeah break up, you said it yourself, you want a mature relationship and she isn't ready. she'll move on after you, and go after some random guy. you have better girls to go out with.I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Work things out (you know what to do)





Tell her she's being immature.





Remember, love is not about being interested in someone, it's about being committed to that someone. Why won't she listen to you? It's because she is not yet ready for that kind of relationship.





If you seriously want an adult relationship, then man, this girl ain't for you. She's childish, and I trace a bit of bipolarity in her.
I agree with the other posts- you spoke volumes. For your ages, it shows that you are mature and want a mature relationship,sounds like she still has some wild oats to sow, and will give you nothing but heartache later. Move on to someone who is a better fit for your maturity.
Ray she is immature and a user. Get rid of her. If she can't talk to you for a week and then pretends like nothing happen that is something you will need to look forward to in the future. Get rid of her. There are plenty of WOMEN that can handle a MAN like you. You deserve better.
i have i classmate like that and she really annoys me...


you shouldnt continue daiting her
Okay, I think you answered your own question. YOU want an adult relationship, but she is being childish about ';everything.'; She's 16, and she has a LOT of growing to do before she'll be able to comprehend an adult relationship. If she's trying to hide a tattoo from her parents, that speaks volumes. Adults don't have to hide anything, and they won't. Further more, how can you be a ';little'; interested in someone else, and then change your mind in a few hours. She is a normal 16 year old girl, but nowhere near being an adult. If you don't mind the childish antics, then more power to you. But I can promise you now, they will get worse before they get better.
hey there. you know , girls like to play games a lot. like ignoring or saying stupid stuff. it is all about attention they want. i used to play games when i was like 15-16. but if u want no games date a mature girl and start enjoying your life.playing a silly game instead of stupid game like that. if you want to stay with her and love her then you have to talk to her seriously and tell her you dont like when she acts like that.and ask her if she meant it or not.if she meant that she was intersted in someone else, well she's ready to jump on someone else when you are not around.and she's not that in to you.life is too short to struggle and play games like that.