my girlfriend and i have started a long distance realtionship. we are still in the beginning stages of learning and figuring out each other. i have been stressing out a little and she can tell. shes starting her period this month but she is acting different and very weird. she also just got her tongue pierced and she said its been bothering her. but she told me yesterday she hates when i ask ';are you ok?'; because she says i ask her too much. she doesnt text me as much as she use to, she has been brief online chat w. one word answers. we talked today before i went to the gym and she told me she hates having serious convos and that ';we'; are fine, to not worry so much, ect. then she wrote me an email saying things like
';I hope you know that I care about you so much and I would like to reitterate the fact that I'm not giving up on you! Only 4 more weeks til you come down and I CANNOT WAIT!....miss you a whole bunch and remember that I'm your girl, and that your my man!....PS... Did I mention I MISS YOU?! ohhh and that I like you A LOT. and that I will always tell you if something is bothering me about you. or um that you make me so happy. and that im so lucky to have you as a boyfriend. and that you give a good name to guys out there. and that you are very very sex';
i feel like im up her rear-end all the time, that i text too much, that i worry too much if everything is ok with her or if ';we are ok';. i know im pushing her away and that its not making things any easier w/ this LDR. but she assured me she would tell me if something was wrong with her.
i really think the tongue ring and the period are the main reasons for her being so emotional, but what do i do to make her not feel like im up her butt all the time, but at the same time making her feel special and knowing that shes got a good man.
do i stop texting her as much? let her text me? act like something is wrong? act like everything is ok? not worry about anything? please give me some advice, i dont want to mess this up with this girl. we both like each other so much and i want this to work. i dont see her till oct 23rd! and she got me a hotel room for a night! PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! ANY AND ALL ADVICE IS WELCOMED.
thanks..Long distance relationship advice?
long distance relationships are tough- i just moved-but if it's meant to be, it will find a way to work out. Don't text her every second of the day, but it's definately nice to get a text once a day or once every other day. maybe call instead? periods definately have their affect on women, so i wouldn't worry too much about her emotions. be yourself- that's what she likes, and stop worrying about her, but at the same time, don't be oblivious to any signs that the relationship needs to end. if you are both into each other, then it should work out. just sit back, relaxe, and plan something cute for the 23rd
good luck!Long distance relationship advice?
you should let her text you
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
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