Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Help! Relationship advice!?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm nineteen years old. We met when we were juniors in high school. In high school we had a lot of trust issues, but now i think trust each other more than we use to. We are going to the same college, but in our second year he decided to join the army. I wanted him to stay, of course, but he told me that school wasn't for him. So he enlisted and two weeks ago he left for basic training. Now i'm here going to college and living with my parents (which i have been for the past nineteen years, they are the best!) **FYI***. He keeps on telling me he wants to get married to me when he comes back, but I don't want to get married. I'm not sure I'm ready. Plus, I need to graduate from college first. I told him I wanted my master's degree, but he said that was a waste of time. He wants me to travel with him while he's in the army, but it's not what i really want. These past three months have been hard on me. I don't look at him the same way i used to before. He has a bad temper and he loves to argue and scream. I need some advice please.Help! Relationship advice!?
Don't put aside your life for someone you are questioning so much. It wouldn't be smart to not go through with your education because of one person. It's a hard decision. If you really like him, then find a balance between you the two of you. You'll have to both compromise to make it work. I would say don't drop out college, because you will probably regret it later. It depends on where you want to go in life. You might miss out on opportunities both ways.


hope this helped a little. best of luck.

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