my boyfriend of a month just got back from a family vacation friday that was 18 days long! i thought he'd be excited to see me, but he really seems to be acting different since he got back.. he keeps telling me ';he doesn't know'; when were gonna hang out, and i mean, i havent seen him in 20 days now! i keep thinking, what if he's just really tired or busy from his long vacation? what if something's wrong?
but do you think i should confront him; what should i do?
i'd appreciate any help, thanks in advance! =)Need relationship advice-please help?!?
Maybe something happened on his vacation? Like, not just girl-wise...maybe something in his family? I would give him a phone call, not just text (idk if that's what you were doing or not) and tell him you just wanted to make sure he was alright. It's the only way you can really figure it out unfortunately.
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i know this is hard. cuz its hard for me too.
but put ur phone in a drawer in ur room or somewhere that you wont go to for a while. and dont text or call him.
and wait. even if you dont text for days, hopefully he'll get the point and text you or call. if he doesnt, then you know. then after 2 weeks (if it even goes that long) you can call and ask what's going on.
but its only been a month for u guys. and three of the weeks you havent seen him. so it doesnt sound that serious and he doesnt sound committed. and i know you dont wanna hear this, but it doesnt look like its going anywhere.
CONFRONT HIM. he should be wanting to see you too.. there must be something wrong here. just talk to him, and find out whats going on. it could be alot of different things, it may have nothing to do with you
just give him a little time he just got back from vacation and he prob has some more events he needs 2 go 2 just send him a friendly txt evry once in a while 2 c how he's doing and hopefully u guys will b able 2 hang out
you answered mine i answer yours :)
well it sounds like maybe something happened during vacation..maybe he is having doubts. I think you should confront him about, just ask what up with him and talk about it.
i would wait a little to see if it lasts
maybe hes just really tired from the trip
if it lasts i would confront him
good luck girl
thanks for answering mine im sorry to hear that confornt him tell him if he dont answer u that u will break up with him it will be over but then he might say a lie
yeah you should confront him
i totally agree with dreamer:)
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
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