Gay guy relationship advice- I met this guy on msn, but should I block him?

There's this guy who I met online. We started out just having friednly conversation, talking about the gay life that I didn't know much about. He told me he had like six dates lined up next week so I thourght this guy wouldn't possibly come on to me. But then he did.





What made him seem like a nice guy from the start was the fact that he said he wasn't into cam sex. But on the second night we spoke he kept asking for cam sex and being the horny fool that I used to be, I gave what he wanted.





During our next conversation I said I wouldn't do it again because it makes me feel like a **** afterwards, which it does. But then he kept saying to me how he respects me which kind of turned me on again and we did it a second time.





After that I said to him I would never do that again and he told me he would never ask. Since then it's hard to know what to say to him with what happened at the back on my head.





I would block him, but am not sure if it's a good way of dealing with it.Gay guy relationship advice- I met this guy on msn, but should I block him?
Get off your computer, hit some bars and meet some real guys.Gay guy relationship advice- I met this guy on msn, but should I block him?
yes block him, sounds like a weirdo to me, why would you want to be friends with him, hes not much of an online friend just a perv! Maybe secretly you enjoy cam sex, if you keep doing it? Just hope he hasnt recorded it and is posting it around!
first off, never, ever let someone talk you into doing something you dont want to do or is against your personal values. Anyone that wont take NO for an answer is not worth your time. Block him and move on.
omg..how can cam sex turn you on ?


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Well talk to him about how you feel or Whateverr =/


don't block him.. thats just cruel ^^
I wouldn't block him. Give him a chance to NOT ask you for it. But if he does ask again, absolutely DON'T do it, and block him then!!
Dont have any more contact with this guy. He hasn't done anything wrong but the whole scenario is making you feel uncomfortable.
this guy maybe sick minded you can`t always trust people you chat and meet on the net he could be anybody
block him
Go meet some people in person... there are many good gay bars...
Hahaha....thanks, you've made my morning!! What goes on behind closed doors eh!! lol
What you've done is past and over and if you are positive you won't again then pickit up from there. It isn't his fault that you did it even though he asked, you could and should of said no and left it at that.





Now you want to blame someone else for what you did. Face up to it and if needed talk it over with him. Chances are you will never meet this guy anyway so he isn't your buddy or lover so no harm no foul.





Exploring our sexuality is all a part of the growing process and what you did may have made you feel like a **** and now you want to put it behind you but the only way for that is to talk it over with him and face up to it.





Put the cam away and when you do go out and meet real guys don't drop your pants for the first one who asks.
Well at least you realise your mistake, but don't think that all others are like him in this way. By all means you should block him and have no further contact with him, but tell him directly that you wish nothing else to do with him and that you do intend to block him. In a certain aspect you have been used, I for one would not trust his word because you will more than likely want you to do cam sex and who is to say that he is not taping it,for use in some other devious way, so be safe and block him and have nothing more to do with him.
You met this guy on MSN and chances are, you never gave him any personal details (other than your email address). Hence, you don't really need to worry.





From what you say, this guy is just a cyber-guy - who operates solely from the realms of his computer. He's one of those people who likes to build your hopes up and then suddenly disappear without a trace. He isn't the only one who does this - scour Gaydar and you'll come across hundreds. To them, you're just an evenings entertainment - next day, they're on to someone else.





Someone else mentioned here about this guy recording the material and posting it somewhere. This is very unlikely - chances are, he's creating more material with new people. Deep down, this guy has psychological issues.





Whether you block him or not is irrelevant - he's probably never going to contact you again anyway. If it makes you feel better then by all means block him. Otherwise, just learn from it.
I can relate to that. Been there, done that.





What's happened is becoming a real problem, because we're not going out any more and meeting real people. People are spending far too much time on the internet in their free time instead of getting out and about.





If you have nothing to say to this person, then accept it and move on. If he was ';the one';, you'd find that you had loads to talk about.





I suspect that this guy is just another sad individual who has nothing better to fill his day than watch other men get off. You could be one of many.





Unplug your web cam, switch off your computer and go for a walk in the park. Or if you insist on using the internet for socialising, chat to local guys and go meet them for a beer.
most of us guys are W#ores and we like it that way. we dont have the sensitivities that women have around sexual exploitation.





Yes we are told that we ';SHOULD'; feel badly and that might cuase us a bit of guilt, but in the end it really isn't so much a social stigma that haunts us, as it is a sexual taboo that arouses us.





If you like a guy its ok to let him know. if you like to show him your body because it makes you hard, then do it. guilt is a slightly unpleasant feeling but regret is a lot worse.





losing someone on the basis of an act that neither of you really considers sacred is just a bit silly.





give him what he wants but attach it to something YOU WANT.
its easy to fall into the trap especially when your horny and want company, but mybe he's playing on that and too be honest there cant be a future for you really if thats how he meets guys you'd be forever jelous, hes a player if he has date lined up, but he'll be the lonley one in the end, you wait and find things out for yourself you learn by your mistakes, and become a better person for it, you sound like a nice guy you'll find someone in time, i would just stop chatting to him and he will get bored very quickly and move on to his next guy.





only do what you want to do for you and nobody else.