Help.. relationship advice?

right am seeing this girl for about 4 months now, we both love each other, and shes the most confusing girl ever. she can go a week without texting, just the random texts here, and there, and she wouldnt pick up. im quite positive shes not cheating, she just tellsme that shes very confused, and she doesnt really tell me how she feels about anything. she loves me, and am pretty confident about that. the other day i managed to force an answer out of her, and she told me that she was a bit worried as shes a bit older than me, am 22, and shes 24.. shes really jealous btw. so now, we have been gettin along gr8 last couple o f days, since we talked, and today she didnt bothe textin, or callin, am starting to get fed up with it, but i love her. like the other day i was drivin to see her, as we had a silly fight, and she was a bit cold, i had an accident then, and she was really supportive, she went to spain, i went to paris, and wen she came back she was cold no texts or calls, and she was callin me everuday frm spain sayin she mssed me and stuff. so what do i do pple? sorry if this is long?Help.. relationship advice?
ok i can only answer this as if i was the girlfriend!





I don't like it when my boyfriend is always there and always texting, so if i were you i'd back off a little.





you seem confident enough that she loves you extra and maybe she is taking you for granted so a little of 'treat them mean and keep them keen' wont harm her. wait and let her text you, if you don't hear anything in 9 days then phone and say if she's not interested then at least have the decency to let you know.





hopefully she will text you b4 the 9 days are up, if she does play it a little cool but not cold!





good luck xHelp.. relationship advice?
it sounds like she just really insecure about herself and ya'll relationship. just tell her that you love her and you don't want anyone else just her do little things that reassure her that everything you say is true. text her in the morning with a silly text like goodmorning beautiful dreamed about you last night, really miss you. stuff like that call her and just talk to her and tell her you miss her just little things has she met all your friends and family? if not introduce her as your girlfriend and kiss her in front of them that really shows a girl you love her.