Simple, cliched relationship advice?

It's so typical girl of me, but I had to ask.





I'll keep it short and sweet.





There's a guy (no kidding). We're together. He's older than me, and although i've had a boyfriend, ive never kissed anyone. He has, and he wants to kiss me, but im so lost it isnt funny.





MY QUESTION;; any pointers on what to do about the whole kissing scenario? tips to make it seem like i kinda know what im doing? or perhaps, a way to practice without him there.





Please dont say it'll come naturally. It doesn't.





thankyou!


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it really does come naturally. and if you've never done it how do you know otherwise?!





It really annoyed me when thats all everyone said to me as well.


But it really does. theres not really much way to practice or any special technique, it just happens! its not rocket science, so its not too hard to get wrong!





Just don't worry. and the best way to make it look like you know what youre doing is to relax!! if you're really tense it'll only ruin the moment. So just do it, you wouldn't want to spoil the moment by thinking in your head 'am i doing it right?' and being scared would you?!Simple, cliched relationship advice?
Hey, first of all, Congrats on meeting someone you like!


Unfortunately, there's no productive way to practice kissing a person - anyone who says otherwise is probably a weirdo. I don't want to use a ';canned'; saying here, but it DOES come naturally. The only advice I can give you is to just push your lips close to his, and let it happen. Don't ';Try'; anything you've seen, and don't think about it. It's really nothing to analyze, or ponder about. Just don't be nervous. The way lips touch feels natural - it'll be easier than you think, I promise. Good luck!
How do you know it doesn't come naturally? You've never experienced it before!


The reason it seems like such an intimidating thing to do is because of that. And if you don't let it happen naturally it could get awkward.





Most importantly, BE CONFIDENT. Boldness is always a turn-on!


Use your hands to make it more passionate - Run your fingers through the hair on the back of his head; if it's just a peck, hold him by his sides.





Practice on your hand if it helps :D





Good luck!!


Much love
Here's an idea... Watch the movie Hatari with John Wayne. LOL Yeah, I know. But there is a great scene where this hot Italian chick is like, ';How you like to kiss?'; Then she gets shown up close and personal exactly how he likes to kiss.





Seriously, impersonation is the most sincere form of flattery. In other words, when he gets around to laying one on you, mimic what he's doing.
wow! i have totally had this exact problem. If you two are together then it really shouldn't matter how inexperienced you are. he likes you for you and don't worry about making a fool of yourself. honestly, for me it didn't come naturally. i'm still not that great of a kisser. they didn't care though. they just liked being close to me because they liked me. i got better with practice. just let him know up front that your nervous and haven't kissed anyone before. tell him flirtatiously that you're willing to let him teach you though (:
Take your time and relax. Let him know that your nervous, and if he isn't a jerk, he'll understand. Kissing him shouldn't be to hard, if there is chemistry then it should come naturally, but if you can't get a mood set for kissing, try doing it after a date, or during a romantic movie.
well first, just relax. i like to wrap my hands around a guy's neck. i feel like i have more control that way, maybe that would be good for you. also, tilt your head slightly so that your nose does not clash with his. and lastly, dont open your mouth too wide or you'll hit teeth. and if youre not sure what to do with your tongue, follow his or spell out your name or something. haha





good luck and have fun;)
you can't practice without an actual human, really. since he's kissed before, it would be advisable if you just let him take over. you don't have to do anything. the answers will come to you once it starts. :p
Like in dancing, let him lead. Lol.
well it kinda does come naturally.. jus don't stress can't really practice lol


maybe on your hand? just follow what he does
just dont completly eat his face with ur mouth or shove ur tounge in so much it'll choke him and u'll b fine