So me and this girl dated and then we stopped. I could tell something was wrong so I asked her. She had come out of a 5 year relationship and said she needed to be single. Since then she hasn't talked to me very much and even though we aren't dating I wanted to be her friend. I kind of felt neglected and let it fizzle. Now I have forced myself to overcome feelings for her even though they were so strong at one point. I can tell she is making sure I hang around. I have a feeling that once she gets over her ex boyfriend shes going to come back to me. I'm not sure if I should welcome her back or not because she really has hurt me by neglecting me altogether. Would you take someone back in this situation? Am I being to critical on her for coming out of long relationship?A little relationship advice please?
It's a very big risk to wait for her. Sadly, some women never do really get over an ex. There are certain people who you love so deeply, and when they hurt you, you are scarred for life. Life isn't a fairytale, and this is the reality of it. Why would you want someone who might still have feelings for another man? Those feelings should be for you, all of them. You can be with someone who has her whole heart available to you, and can love you unconditionally. You are better off that way.A little relationship advice please?
she was on the rebound...
maybe its best step back for now, and see what she does. be sure the signs are clear before crossing the road.
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