give it time
he might come aroundMature relationship advice?
Men who dont want sex often have intimacy issues.my daughter has divorced her husband after 6 years of virtually no sex life as well as he would blame her for the problems in their life.he was compulsive and obsessive in behaviours.
If you want a life without the loving feelings of natural sexual relationship?then stay with the obvious problems you see already or recognize that being bipolar also ads to the mix of cocktails and may turn poison later down the track
I am so sorry to hear about your situation.
You'd do best to leave this person or seek counseling. I do not see any other advice to give you.
The physical part of a relationship is just as critical as the emotional and mental parts.
If he is not willing to ';work'; with you on it, then what else is he going to refuse to compromise on down the line?
You need a partner not a challenge.
hey,
i think because your boyfriend has those things it might become a bit of a obstacal in your relationship. i think you should have it out with him and try and find out once and for all why he won't have sex with you. if you don't see the results you want, you might be better off leaving him
good luck
cj
he's interested in sex. trust me.
there is something he's hiding from you though, thats why you haven't consummated your relationship yet.
perhaps he's insecure about his sex organ?
maybe he has ED?
talk to him about it and explain you love him and his body, and you think sex would take the relationship to a whole other level.
well Rachel, One of my friends is going threw the same situation. She as all the charactrics you have just listed. Have you talked to him about how you feel? i think you should do that first. then see where you stand.
I mean sex isnt everything, BUT, and thats a big BUT, it does matter. Maybe the age difference is something. Idk. i love having sex with my partner!!
good luck. i hope you find a solution
Yep... medication fro bipolar people can seriously affect libido and he needs to get to see his doctor about this. It is normal to sort out meds and talk to doctor about his lack of libido. Say you will go with him or look up his meds with him on teh net and see what the side effects are. LAMOTRIGINE???
Do it together!!!
He's cheating. Men who accuse women of cheating are PROJECTING their insecurities.
As in, I'M DOING IT, therefore SHE IS PROBABLY DOING IT TOO.
That is why he isn't sleeping with you and accusing you of cheating.
TYPICAL and case closed.
Honestly, i think hes cheating on, and not just with 1 other girl, just a guess here and I'm sorry if i offend you, but it almost sounds like hes trying to cover his own tracks here, while he goes out and has one night stands with every girl on the block.
No offense but I bet he is cheating on you. That is why he is so paranoid. There is a saying that goes ';Accusing someone is the guilty conscience of the accuser of that they are doing it themselves'; I would look into it.
OK, if he is catholic sex before marriage is not good. Unless you are married. Maybe he isn't ready to have a baby yet. Or maybe he's just afraid about something. I'm not sure, because I was always told sex is ';enjoyable';
Have you gained weight since you started dating? Sorry if this sounds cruel, but I have dated several women that were thin when I started dating them, then they gained weight and I was no longer sexually attracted.
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he's cheating for sure, that's my opinion...and you're WAY too young to be in a relationship that's going nowhere fast, if I were you I would dump him.
You should try and relieve him of his worries.
He should be trusting you and believing that you're a faithful person.
No joke, get a vibrator.
I think your bf has some major problems. You are hot!!
wa?
It's funny how sex ends up being a deal breaker when it comes to a relationship. Unless both people get what they need or something close it becomes a real problem. Communication is always the best first place to start. but I think the best time to talk about sex is not during an intimate moment. I wouldn't even talk about it during dinner. Try bringing it up while you are riding in the car, maybe if you're the one driving. He needs to open up. Everyone is capable of a fun sex life.
There may be something on his mind that's keeping him from getting in the mood. Again talking can help here too. Try not to pressure him because pressure is like an anti-aphrodisiac. It's only going to turn him off more.
There is a real possibility that you have no sexual chemistry together, and let me tell you if you have powerful chemistry then sex will be great no matter how bad your relationship is. It's a sad fact but love sometimes finds a way. Good luck.
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