I need some relationship advice please...?

Ok, so about a month or so ago, there was a girl that I started to like. I am not going to publicly post her actual name, so I will just call her Jane lol.





Anyway, Jane found out that I liked her so she broke up with her boyfriend because she kinda liked me as well. But she told me that she wanted to wait for a while before she gets another boyfriend. Well we talked a decent amount and we are going to a dance together.





Well, now she is giving me signals that she wants me to ask her out. The thing is that, I am starting to not like her as much as I did before. I think its because I don't want to deal with the obligations that come with having a girl friend. I just want to be a 'free spirit'. lol.





What should I do? I feel bad about changing my mind so suddenly and I don't want to upset Jane or anything, but I also don't want to make a show and act like I like her when I don't.





HELP!





I need some relationship advice please...?
Well, according to what you wrote her, you never told her that you wanted to go out with her or any of that stuff. She was the one who assumed that you did. I completely understand. There was a guy I thought I liked, but when he asked me out, I realized that I didn't actually want to go out with him. It's a really hard feeling to understand if you haven't been through it. There really isn't a way to let this girl know how you feel without breaking her heart and chances are if you do tell her, she might spread the word and it might be hard for you to go out with one of her friends if you end up liking them. But putting that aside, for now you should ask her to a dance or two and leave it at that. If she wants more, she has to ask for it. And if she does, just tell her you like her, but not enough to feel obligated to be her boyfriend. It's hard, and it is a little unfair to her, but she was the one who made the assumption you wanted to go out with her and she chose the wrong path to take that information down. Unless you told her before that you would ask her out later, this isn't your fault. Just keeping it at the ';dating as friends'; stage for now. Don't make it go any farther until she does. This stuff happens, and it's tough. Email me if you need some more help. Good luck! :-)I need some relationship advice please...?
well u ***.. its true what womens say about mens that they are all MEN WHORES.. when they have something, they dont apreciated.. your going to break that gurls heart and thats not fair for her cuz she broke up with her boyfriend for u..