Anyone with relationship advice?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about three years long distance. We see each other every couple of months, and we talk on the phone every night. The first year and a half was pretty dang good, and we got along really well. However, the last year to year and a half, it's gotten to where whenever we see each other, he is really needy and needs me to take care of him. He just kinda like lays around and mopes about how he has a headache or he's tired or this or that, and it bothers me cuz we hardly get to see each other. I don't want the time to be spent with him complaining about every little thing. And also, one week he's really clingy wanting to talk on the phone all day every day, and the next week, he doesn't wanna talk at all and says he's busy with friends. It's getting to be really confusing and stressful, and I just wanna know if anyone has had the same or similar situation and what your advice is. Do you see us lasting? I want us to because at first it was really nice, but now not so much..Anyone with relationship advice?
wow...no offense but the way you described your boyfriend made him sound really gay. I dont see your relationship lasting unless he mans up.Anyone with relationship advice?
idk y...........but i think hes cheating on u...dis hapnd 2 me nd i the end i found out he ws cheating on me so ooo.........u shuld uhm find out if he likes some1 else//....
I've been in a situation like this before. you could last however I think maybe you should confront him about it. explain to him that you rarely get to see each other and when you do finally get to that you would really appreciate if he wouldn't mope around complaining. It might anger him at first but I think he'll understand where your coming from, and if he snaps back at you with something, try and calm him down and explain your reasoning as to why your having this conversation to him.





OR..





you could just give up and end it, but like you said at first it was really nice and now it isn't. Well explain to him why it doesn't seem as nice as it was.








I hope I helped!


Best of luck!


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