Friday, January 8, 2010

Help ! relationship advice ! !!!!!!!!!?

okay heres my story. im fifteen years old and i just started my sophmore year in high school. in february of this year, i met this guy who is a grade higher than me. me and him talked for 6 months but officially never went out due to my parents being uptight. ( they arent now but whatever) anyway ! so over the summer, while we were ';separated'; i got a boyfriend august 17. hes so amazing and so nice. and hes perfect%26lt;333 im always so happy around him and is just amazing. but the other guy is always on my mind and i had tried a relationship in june with a guy annd eeneded up breaking up with him for this same guy. he just always there. plus i go to school with him and not my boyfriend, so just facing him everyday is terrible. i truly feel like i was in love with him. because he isnt the most attractive person ever, but i just see right through it. plus we used to fight ALLLLL THE TIME but wed always make up %26lt;3 nothing held us down. and now that i see him everyday and we have short convos its just not ever like it was and im just so upset. I REALLY LIKE my boyfriend right now, its just idkwhat to do. im afraid of losing him, yet at the same time, i feel like im in love with the other. PLEASE HELP ME.Help ! relationship advice ! !!!!!!!!!?
I think you should stick with your boyfriend right now. You said yourself that you have short conversations with the other guy and its not ever like it was, and to be honest it probably never will be. I'd just try to get over him.





Right now it sounds like you have a pretty good thing with your current boyfriend. Things will work out the way that they should, and if you are really truly meant for the other guy, it will work out that way in time. Help ! relationship advice ! !!!!!!!!!?
well i had a problem like this one before, but with girls instead of guys of course...and its pretty simple wut u have to do. and honestly, u probably will stop talking to one of them, or yalls relationship just wont be the same again. you just need to see both of the closely and just see who you want more, u got your bf right now and that other guy. just think about both of them for a while and see who u think will make you more happy...well i hope i helped, good luck!
OMG...wish i could help you but im totally


having the same problem...but eventually will


have to choose so give it time think about what


you really want and spend a day with your ex


and see how you feel the minute your with him


youll know exactly what you want atleast thats


what i think you sould do cuz im in the process


of that lol GOOD LUCK
Put both of them in a cubicle. Two men enter, one man leaves. After the fight to the death the man with predisposed superior genes will be the victor and be better suited for your offspring seed.
Triangle relationships never work out. Make a decision. If you picked the wrong one in error it is part of growing up and learning from mistakes.
its normal to be in love with ten guys at once when youre 15
no ofence but i didnt understand diddly of what u said
look I'm not wanting to be rude or hurt your feelings but at your age it is too early to choose so why are you concerning yourself with choosing? You are too young to choose. What always makes sense tho is to spend your time with the people you get along with better. Life weeds out the relationships that don't work as a matter of natural selection...so don't worry so much.





P.S. Remember this one thing - If you are having trouble making a decision, don't make one at all - do nothing. You will do it when you are ready or when you have to do it.





You don't have to choose yet. ';What happens at 15 stays at 15. '; The things you do now, very few people will hold you 100% accountable for in five or ten years. Your decisions from now will help alter your future but not drastically. If you break up with the one guy you fight with now, he would forgive you in five years if you were both single again and more mature and get along better. There is no reason you cannot date both guys. If they can't handle it too bad for them.





Just because you get along with one or the other now means nothing. I swear people only grow up at 30 but many make choices about relationships before then and then just live with the consequences. Just enjoy your life and stop worrying about things being permanent.

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