In need of relationship advice?

Alright, I've only really dated two girls in my whole life. The first girl I dated ended up cheating on me during my junior year in college with a bastard friend of mines and I sadly let that affect my educational career. I was put on academic suspension due to getting under 2.0 two semester in a row. While I was forced to retire from school for a year, I went and worked a lot of crappy jobs, partied a lot, and went clubbing a lot. I met this girl at the club which turned out to be a girl I am still dating now, we've dated a little over 1 year. She inspired me to return to college and get a degree which I am currently doing right now and thank god for that. But, I'm not sure I want to be with this girl. I mean I can't really say ';I love you'; to her and ';I want to be with you'; kinda stuff to her. But I do like her because she has her life straight, graduated from college,has a job at one of the top accounting firms in the U.S., and she's very nice and likes me a lot. Recently we've been arguing and she says it's because I don't love her enough, which I denied at first, but now that I think about it, it's true. I feel like I maybe don't want to be alone that's why I'm keeping her around, but at the same time I don't want to lose her. And honestly, a part of me wants to date and meet other people. I think it's because I've never experienced the dating scene for more than 2 months. After those months are up, I found another girl and dated her (the girl I'm dating right now). Iono, do you guys think I just didn't have enough fun? I'm 23 years old, got about 1 1/2 left of college to get my bachelor's, and am a current full-time student. What should I do about my situation? I feel it's selfish to have a girlfriend who loves me a lot but I'm not sure if I love her the same. I mean, I do love her, but I'm just not sure to what extent. Like If I got her pregnant, I'd go for abortion because I'm too young right now to handle a kid. It's thoughts like this that makes me say to myself, I should just let her go. But at the same time, she's responsible for me putting myself back together, especially after my first ex screwed me over (she was my high school sweetheart up to college where she cheated on me with my damn friend, dated her for 5 1/2 years).





Well, iono how my train of thought is right now. From the facts, she's dated like 6-8 guys while she was in college. I've only dated about 2 people. She partied her *** off while in college and went to study abroad at a lot of places. She tells me that she wants to marry me or that's her intentions because she's met a lot of deadbeats and I'm actually one who has morals and is responsible. The thing I hate the most is making people sad, I mean, I hate it when she cries, I don't like it when anyone is sad, especially if its because of me. And I don't know, I think the sex life with my first ex was a lot better, with my current gf, the sex life is....so-so. It's mediocre and she doesn't really do all the things I want her to do. Which iono, it's like a pet peeve of mines when things don't happen in bed or anyplace else that make me excited. I'm not talking like I'm a sex-freak or anything, but come on guys, having some sex thrills outside of the bedroom would be nice. But anyways, iono, right now I've been given the option to break it off with her if i decide i don't love her enough or stay with her forever(%26lt;---that's a scary word, but you know, commitment) like planning to get married in the long-run and stuff.





....man....I have no idea on what to do in this situation. Should I just let her go? What If I lost a person I shouldn't have lost? What if all the rest of the girls in my life I meet are all ';not up to par';? (sorry I couldn't word it better.) Should I experience the single life again and date around until I'm satisfied? That's the one question I'm pondering on. The MAIN question though is, should I break my girlfriend of a little over 1 year, her heart so I don't waste anymore of her time? Am I doing her wrong by keeping her around? She sure has taught me a lot and I'll always be glad she forced me to go back to school. GOSH I'm too crazy when it comes to this. blah....iono any thoughts out there on what I should do?In need of relationship advice?
sounds like you've got a lot going on. i think you owe it to yourself to date around a little bit more before you get serious. it's obvious from your post that you're not 100% committed to your relationship right now; my advice is to let her go so you can have the freedom to do your own thing and get your priorities in order. after that, you'll probably be more ready for a serious relationship.


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