I need some relationship advice, is this a possible relationship?

Ok so I have this friend who I met and we hit it off great at first there was no way I would hook up with him, he was not my type at all. After a few weeks of him texting me non-stop we started getting closer and we have been having a sexual relationship. We both are somewhat unsure if we would call ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend and he is the type to hide his feelings. So far he has taken me out to a movie, spent a weekend away from where we live together,and took me out to a nice restaurant. We got into an argument which he called it quits but then 2 days latter he is apologizing and wanting to talk and make up. Now he has invited me to his friends place for cook outs and started hanging out with my kids and playing with them, he took them to the park and spent a good amount of time with them a few weekends ago when we were all at a friends house for dinner.





Thing is he is in his early 20's and i am in my late 20's, neither of us really know what to call our relationship he says he just lets things naturally happen, but I feel like I need answers. Does this seem like a possible relationship? I do know he has talked to his friends and family about me and personally I do not believe he has had a real relationship before. What is he waiting on? am I just wasting my time or should I just be a bit more patient?I need some relationship advice, is this a possible relationship?
Does this seem like a possible relationship?


I don't think so because women became aged faster than men.


soon he will be in the height of his youth and you will be old like his mother beside him


don't get annoyed with me but i try to give you advice.I need some relationship advice, is this a possible relationship?
There is definitely something there. I think sometimes, women too often get too preoccupied with titles and labels. What you're describing sounds like a relationship to me, and a pretty good one, so you shouldn't really pressure him to call it that. Especially if this is one of his first real relationships, he'll get there. :)
No, this is not a relationship, forget it. The fact that you are even asking the question '; is this a possible relationship?'; means that is not. I only briefly read what you wrote an I spotted the words ';we got into an argument'; that immediately spells doom. Just forget it. You dated a bit it didn't work out, just go back to your lives.
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If he is involved with your kids then he is probably considering you to be his girlfriend. Although I suppose he could be keeping up the appearance of 'boyfriend' to continue the sexual relationship, but it seems that he wouldn't put this much effort into it if he weren't serious about you. Is he a nice guy? Good person? Or does he have kind of a jerky nature? If he is a decent person, then I would go ahead and assume that he is not using you.


It seems that the two of you could definitely have a relationship if he would just admit his feelings. He wants to take things slow in that regard, so if you care for him you will be patient. He is young so the possibility of having met 'the one' (for lack of better terminology) is probably a little frightening for him.


If he plays games with you, ditch him, but if he seems sincere and isn't seeing anyone else, and is good with your children, and you want the relationship to evolve, then keep seeing him.


It doesn't seem to have the makings of a casual sex relationship.