Need relationship advice please?

I went on four dates with a great guy and it seemed to be going well. He said that he liked me, cares about me, is pleased that he met me, i make him happy and it does not matter what he does as long as he is with me.





He then got all freaked out. He said that he is not feeling good and can not get use to the idea of being single. He said that he needs time, he needs to learn to deal with it and its not my fault. I apologised to him, said that i like him etc, i am willing to slow things down, just have fun and no staying over. He said that would be nice. He said that he does care about me a lot and that i have made him happy.





I am worried that i have messed up tho as i have sent him several messages along the same lines and im scared of loosing him/pushing him away.





We had arranged to meet up tomorrow eve before this all happend. So i casually txt him today and no pressure, do you still want to hang out tomorrow? He replied saying if you would like to and what would you like to do? I replied saying we can do the original plan or meet in town if he is not comftable with meeting at his. He said lets meet at his, its fine, we can watch a dvd and talk in private. Im worried that he feels that he has to do this and he has not said anything because he is scared to.





I really like him, want to give this a go and do not mess up.





What do you think? Do you think that he still likes me? What should i do? I have told him several times there is no pressure and that im happy to take things slow. Is this the right thing to do?Need relationship advice please?
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Yes - you are doing the right thing. just take it slow and if things are meant to work out they will - try not to worry so much i'm sure everything will work out ok for you. You have not messed up in any way that I can see so just keep doing what you are doing.





Best of luck
Seems like lots of game playing going on, wondering what angle he's playing so you can play yours. Here's the deal, games will not let him know who you really are. Even if the angle you play works, it's probably not the angle that shows him how you really feel. Flings start with games...Relationships that start with games often cause you to leave a big part of yourself out of the mix, afraid of what the other person will think. Of course give him space if that is what he is saying he needs, but be honest with the guy and find subtle ways to let him know how you feel, and what kind of person you really are without being too forward. There are two scenarios here. A guy isnt going to invite you to his house if he is not interested in some form. Or at least i wouldnt. He may only be interested in sex (a fling). But most likely the guy is interested in you...guys dont want flingers coming to their houses all the time or it would send the wrong message. The last thing you want with a fling is a complicated breakup. I think if you just play it subtle, and show the guy the real version of the girl he has met and was interested in from the beginning you will be fine. Use your instincts with the guy while you are hanging out on the couch, find a way to snuggle up (be subtle) and see how he reacts. This will be the tell, guys love when girls that they are interested in want to snuggle up a little bit. makes us feel macho, that we have drawn the prey to us!! Its true. Good Luck.
I think he likes you but is scared. I think he wants you to come over and watch a dvd or he wouldn't have suggested it. I would suggest you BE YOURSELF... don't question anything you do - be the person you are - if it is meant to be - it will happen... if not, then move on to the next wonderful person you will meet! Just NEVER lose yourself and your self respect. Good luck to you - and relax and let things happen.
Yeah, that's all you can do really. He just needs some time to decide what he wants, doesn't mean he can't see you in the meantime though. Just don't get too attached incase things don't work out.