Marijuana/relationship advice?

I'm having relationship problems because my boyfriend is seemingly addicted to smoking weed. Now, I'm not ignorant in the fact that marijuana has no addictive agents. However, I consider a person addicted to a substance when they feel its the only thing that will make them happier in a situation and have a compulsive longing to use it.


The problem presented itself when he began lying to me and hiding the fact that he smokes. He knows that I'm not exactly thrilled at the idea of him smoking, and I told him I would never be upset as long as it wasn't around me. Last night, however, I caught him smoking in our bathroom when he said he was just using the restroom. WE'RE 20 AND 22, so I was quite surprised to see such an immature display.





Anyway. I told him I didn't have a problem with smoking, I had a problem with lying to me about it and hiding it like he was. If it came down to breaking up, would literally choose smoking weed over me. So I need yalls advice.





Thanks for reading this. I know it was kind of long. Thank you so much.Marijuana/relationship advice?
The pot does not bother me as much as the lying so I get what you are saying. It sounds like you deserve better and maybe look for a different type of guy. A little older, a career, a bank account ect. Your young do you really see yourself married to a guy who locks himself in the bathroom to smoke a joint? Lots of fish in the sea. Good Luck!Marijuana/relationship advice?
You should have a problem with his smoking. You are on a one way track down a bad path. Did you know that if he gets caught by the cops, you could go down with him? Smarten up. Pot is illegal and your boyfriend is an idiot. Get out of there before you know what it is like to be sitting behind bars.
Dump him. He sounds like a loser.
Heres my advice. You may not like htat he smokes but if you consider breaking up with him because its a problem FOR YOU then you need to break up because you asked him not to smoke around you and that you didnt want him to do it in front of you he wanted to smoke so he did. Honestly I would expect that no matter what the age. Hes a grown man. If he wants to smoke he will end of story. Would you have rathered he go out to his car really quick or left to the gas station and came back no. you would be even more pissed and probly would have wanted to go so ya Think about it from his point of veiw
I'm a whole lot younger than you but I went through the exact same thing with the exact same drug.


I see no problem with my boyfriend smoking weed when he's with his buddies on the weekends but I do have a problem with it when he smokes everyday.


Another this is, I know my boyfriend would NEVER chose the weed over me and that is VERY important. If you know your boyfriend would rather smoke weed than be with you, dump him. You really just have to let him know that you want to make him happy and that it makes you sad when he smokes weed instead of hang out with you.


The lying is another problem, a boy who lies about smoking weed could lie about his commitment. Now, I don't know you relationship with him any further than you've told but you really need to get him to understand that weed is not going to help you relationship.





xoxo


Good luck.