Need relationship advice.?

Everywhere I go my gf has to be right there. We have a 1 yr old together and I do my share of parenting without complaints, but she can't stop raising her voice at her because our kid 'annoys' her. Like if our kid climbs on the 2 ft high table she yells and yells at her then ends up spanking her on the diaper. Thankfully she's not traumatized by it but I just pick her up, say no maam I don't want you to hurt yourself then place her on the couch where she wants to be.





It seems my s/o can't be calm unless I'm in the room to leave the responsibility off her. When I go into the computer room to relax a bit and get some peace she starts calling me out saying I'm a coward, anti-social, I choose the computer over them, and so on.





It pisses me off. But when I return she'll start doing her thing and leave us alone. I don't say nothing and let her have her peace, trying to understand. an hour passes, then 2. And finally she comes back. We all play together then I leave the room wanting a breath real quick, by myself. Again she starts her **** up and freaks out. It's night time and our kid is getting cranky so she puts her in her toddle bed and shuts the door behind her. I can go on and on but dam how do I deal with my g/f. I love her, she's supportive of a lot of stuff, but when it comes to parenting she can't handle the load. She can't do a single thing by herself. And if I don't assist her she throws the biggest guilt trip. She can't change a diaper without calling me and asking me to fold the diaper up and throw it away, or getting baby powder. She can't give her a bath unless I come in and pick her up so she can wrap her up in a towel. She can't dress her unless I get socks and shoes ready..C'mon, I can understand lets do this together thing. But from day 1 she can't be a independent parent. I can do it just fine but seeing it and dealing with it gets old.I don't want to split but I'm a relationship and nice guy. I like to work things out.Need relationship advice.?
You both need help with parenting classes. You can find out if there are parenting classes in your area if you contact social services. There should be no hitting a small child for anything, but there should not be any child allowed to climb onto tables either. You have to learn how far you can go with discipline - both of you - or you will end up in a messy separation or divorce. You sound as though you are more capable than your wife/gf of handling the child. Just do not make the child suffer for her parents not knowing how to handle these problems, get help and get it before anything bad happens to ruin what you do have together.

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