I know this is going to sound bad, and I don't want people to think I'm incredibally naive, but please note that I'm direly in love with this person and we're engaged.
The day before he was supposed to come up and see me we went to Northgate mall together and were being all snuggly on the bus when he tells me his ex from california is coming up. I kind of shrugged it off, since I'm not that jelouse of a person. Well, we go inside and sit down for 'dinner' in the food court and starts this awkward conversation starting with 'I think you'd find her attractive', after she texts him asking if he thinks I'd find her attractive. I said 'I don't know'. Then he goes on for about 2 whole minutes about how 'hot' she is, even so that his gay friend said 'Daaaamn' when he saw her. She asks him if I'd kiss her, he asks me and I say, ';NO';. Damnit. Then he goes on to tell me she's a sex addict and that the thing they had back in the day was more of a fling... maybe trying to make me for comfortable? Finally, I look him in the face and ask, ';Let me get this straight, you want your SUPER HOT ex SEX ADDICT to come up here, and she's going to feel uncomfortable unless you guys get some ALONE time?...'; FINALLY he says ';Well, you know babe, I'd totally understand if you didn't want her to come up. If I were in your shoes I would be flipping out, so if you don't want her to come up, you just say the word.'; Should he at any point thought that was supposed to be ok?....
The next day, we fooled around in this wooded area, and later on he told me he was texting his ex wife while we had sex.... I said, ';NO WAY! NO....No..That is NOT ok. DON'T do that.'; He turned it into a joke, but he wasn't joking about texting her, he really did. I really love him, I really do, and all he wants is for me to go to him when I feel upset so he can be there for me and he can be very VERY affectionate. He says he's more excited about being with me then anyone he's ever been with and I'm the reason he sings in public now, and he says it a lot, including telling me how beautiful I am. He can also be a total air-head DICK...
The other day at a party I through, the other 3 guys there thought he treated me like **** and did NOT like him, which I was un-aware of until I spoke with my friend Danielle today. All her brother wants is for me to be with someone that treats me right (He's my ex), but I'm really unsure what to do. I do love him....
Am I wasting my time?
I'm hoping there's possibly hope?
I want to be with him forever but I don't want to waste my time on someone who's either that stupid or lacks that much...care. Advice?Serious relationship advice... HELP PLEASE!?
That is bizarre behavior. It seems like he was either intentionally trying to make you jealous or trying to set up a three-some. I really don't know what else to say about that.
If he's a dick to you and your friends can point it out, that is definitely an issue. If he wants you to be able to go to him about anything, than you should talk to him about that. Guys can say stupid things here and there and say stuff that comes out wrong, but the way you treat someone is completely controllable. If he loves you, cares about you, and wants to be with you, he should treat you well all the time.
I would sit down with him and tell him all your concerns.Serious relationship advice... HELP PLEASE!?
drop him.
lose him.
forget him.
i no yu love him...buh that is sooo Sketchy...if i were yu i wudve been FLIPPING OUT on him....props for keeping yur cool
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