Relationship advice!?

okay..i know this is a little lame asking for advice on here, but stilll..





im dating this guy and he's in college. i dont ever get to see him and that seriously sucks on my part. i moved schools this year and theres a tonnnn of new cute guys who are always flirting with me and saying we need to hang out, blah blah blah. so i dont know what to do! the whole ';out of sight, out of mind'; thing is really true in my case. i like my boy a lot, but im not sure what to dooo. help?Relationship advice!?
Think about each others feelings. Ask him what he thinks about it. If he is away and you dont ever get to see him---long distance relationships are too hard. If you are truly in love and he is too there will be one else who can even get your attention. I would be honest with him and ask him if an open relationship would be okay until you two can be together on a regular basis. Otherwise life is too short to sit around and wait for someone. Good luck honey.Relationship advice!?
That's for you to decide if you want to be with your guy or not. Nobody can really help you with this decision. Do you think the flirty men at your school are worth breaking up with your boyfriend?


Flings can only last so long. If you think that you and your boyfriend have something real going on then don't feed into the flirts. It is okay to flirt but don't take it any further than that.


However, if you don't really want a long distance relationship then the responsible thing is to break up with your guy so you can live your life the way you want to,





That's all I have for you.
you have to seriously think about continuing your current relationship. It seems to me that not seeing him that much is a huge problem for you. Most people want to be able to see their guys every so often and be able to hug and kiss them and what not. But since you don't see him that often you can't do that. So of course you want affection from other people. It may not be such a bad thing to take a break form your bf. you're still young and if you really want him back then you can.
How are you dating a guy if you dont get to see him? Im not a fan of long distance relationships unless there was a solid ground before the distance. I dont think this relationship is destined to last. You need to cut your romantic ties with the far away guy and look for fish closer to your own pool. Sounds like what you want to do already, just havent gotten nerve to do it yet. You also sound too young to really stay in a committed relationship, so just consider going on dates and hanging out with guys without settling for one until you find one you cant live without. Good luck!
How old are you? If you haven't graduated High School yet I say stay with this guy till you Graduate.... then reevaluate this relationship again.


If its a particular guy at your new school that you like then just be his friend and see where that leads... You will either end up seeing him as a friend OR falling for him. Then you can reevaluate your long distance relationship.


Be considerate of your BF and do not cheat on him. Be clear in your intentions. If you like a guy bad enough to cheat on your BF then you should leave your BF, and in the process, spare yourself the bad karma that comes to cheaters.





You are young with alot of potential... You will be OK no matter what you choose.
Well, A little advice for you . If you really like you boy, Stick with him .. Don't take a relationship too light neither too heavy, A little time with other guy friends is suppose to be fine, You don't have to be 24/7 with your boy , ya know ?


It's always possible to make friends while having a boyfriend, but you must always remember who will be the perfect one for you.
don't do to others what you wouldn't want them to do to you. put yourself in your boyfriends place and that way your know what to do. the school your boyfriend is going to has a lot of girls and what is he thinking? those guys that want to hang out , your aloud to have friends and have fun just respect your boyfriend. it will do you good to hang out with the opposite sex as friends. having a boyfriend will keep you from being a s-l-u-t
That is a tuff situation. This is what i would do if i was you. Id tell the college guy that you just wanna be friends becuz its really hard to see eachother then try to find someone new at your school. someone you can actually see everyday.


Hope things work out.(:
Tell your boyfriend that you care for him but the long distance thing isn't working for you and you feel like you're missing out on high school life. Play the field. It would be a shame to pass up some good times waiting for someone who may find his own diversion. Who knows, you may find someone who you care more for than him.
break up with your long distance boyfriend and have some fun! trust me. you'll end up breaking up in a few years and you'll have missed out on all sorts of opportunities. just end it.
do you think that's fair to your'e guy in college?


no its not.


stay with the guy if you really like him


if not, then good luck in life and have fun being a heartbraker


you shouldnt just go out with other guys just cos theyre nice and flirtatious to you
Tell the other guys that you are taken, but you will hang out with them as friends (if you want to).


Be careful, you don't want your boyfriend to think that you were cheating!


Have fun :)
Seems as though you want to get involved with other people.





Go for it. If your current bf is meant to be, you guys will get together later down the road..after college!
If you and your college man don't have an exclusivity agreement, play the field.
In this situation the girl tends to cheat before the guy. Have fun.





You are a slut for asking this. You should know the answer.
Well maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break and date other people. Because if u dont get to really see him then kinda whats the point of dating. Best of luck to u!!
dude..the relationship with the other guy wont work out...ur not seeing him often..move onto someone you actually will get to see...kinda silly question
those new college guys would never be there for u like ur boyfriend and if u cant control yourself end it immediately that way better than being a heartbreaker
its hard to be with someone you dont see my advice is eitha wait till you can move back near him or just simply move on
Move on and break it off. Long Distance Relationships NEVER work. Save yourself the time and break it off now.
you need to break up with your soon to be EX idk if you been to college but there are 20x more girls here. i bet he is doing the same exact thing
see if you can communicate by webcam with the guy you like and for the other guys well just tell them to back off
if you cant see each other, thats not healthy. either hangout with your bf or break it up
Move on........... Too many miles in between the too of you
take a break
just cheat he will never know
I assume you are in High School and 18 or younger and he is a normal guy, so this answer is based on that assumption.





You have to hang out with your own crowd. That means dating and whatever else with the people that you are around now. It's a safe bet that your boyfriend is in a similar situation. By that I mean he is surrounded by lots of cute girls and is probably thinking the same thing you are.





So now the question is how to proceed. My recommendation is to take the mature road and explain how you are feeling, and also tell him that he is probably in a similar situation. Then say that BOTH you and he need to scout around possibly date other people WHILE apart. This way neither one is hiding something from the other, there is no lying or sneaking around , AND you can have fun! I wouldn't set any rules, you can bet they will be broken. This also prevents either one feeling guilty over having feelings for someone else.





So, a way you can spin this is to say look, I am giving you PERMISSION to date other people while we are apart. As a guy, I can guarantee that he would be completely floored by this.





The end result is this - You both get the benefit of testing the waters while still being attached to the other. As long as you are open and honest you will be alright.