Need Relationship Advice! Any help appreciated!?

So this is the jist of my situation:





My ex-boyfriend of nine months and i broke up in the beginning of january because he's studying abroad, we planned on this way back in september. There were other problems in the relationship (which were sprung from the abroad sitch) that played into it but we really didn't get a chance to work it out because of this. And he's an extremely closed person.





He left a couple of days ago, and we're trying to remain in contact and remain friends during this time, but I can't help but think about him coming home and us getting back together.





Basically I'm just asking for any advice on how to handle this. I loved him and he had feelings for me, but he knew he was leaving and it caused trouble. I want to know if I should completely get over him, cut off contact, and move on. Or get along with out him, but be into getting back together when he returns. I'm just wondering what you guys would do in this situation. Any help would be great, I'm kinda lost here, lol.Need Relationship Advice! Any help appreciated!?
You are in the process of grieving the loss of the relationship you once had. Regardless of the problems in the past or future, your emotional side is still yearning for the comfort of the attachment.





That is normal and you will get over it in time and each day that passes will ease the process. I would imagine that in a few months you'll be over him.





Also, try to keep your contact with him to a minimum and casual, try to suppress your emotional side wanting to talk about the old times or if you can get him back. Work through that and soon it will be easier to the point where before you know it, you'll be wondering what you were so upset about anyway!





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This is a dude speaking i think you should move on and talk because if he's going to be gone for more than 2 months he sink to temptation and get laid with another girl and he might feel bad but he'll get over you so don't get yourself hurt by holding on to the pieces of the broken relationship
Everyone says long-distance relationships don't work but he's coming back. It would help to know how long he's gone for, but if I was in your situation there would be no hesitation - if you really loved him then there should be no question about it and you should stay in contact.
Stay his friend. Did you ever think that maybe he isnt happy about having to go overseas and study? Just be polite but dont put your whole self into it. When your ready go out on dates and have a good time. When he comes home for good maybe you can try things again. Good luck
just be friends FOR NOW. it didnt work out in your relationship, so dont try to make anything work out. if he only broke up with you cause he was leaving, then theres a chance he will try to get back with you when he gets back. good luck!





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I would stay good friends, but if it doesn't work out, oh well.


Stay in touch and if it's to mutch for you, moving on helped me in similer situations.
start dating...do your own thing....he's obviously doing what he wants to do, so should you....don't wait around on him, but if you're still single when he gets back then be open to the possibility.....stay friends but don't wait around
you should still keep in contacts with him. don't get your hopes up to high when he gets back tho. don't give up on something you cant go a day without thinking about
if he really loves u he will get back together with u
I think you should try to move on. If you are meant to be together then time will show that to be true, but holding on and waiting around (even if it's just in your heart) is only going to hold you back.





If he had felt the same way he would not have wanted to end it. It sounds like you guys had a fun time and a nice connection but I would suggest trying to busy yourself with other interests. Right now it feels overwhelming because he just left, but in time you will feel better.





You never know, by the time he comes back you could be in a completely different place about it.





Do what he is doing, move on and live your life.