Long Distance Relationship Advice?

I've never been in a long distance relationship before or fallen for someone so deep %26amp; fast before. They are both a first for me. However, my boyfriend lives in Texas %26amp; im in New Jersey(very far i know!) %26amp; when we got together we weren't physically together so we have pretty much been distant from the start which is so hard even though we havent been together that long. He wants to move here but can't do that until the summer but we plan to get together every month. We do talk a lot but are busy especially with school %26amp; work. It hurts so bad not being able to see him %26amp; watching all these other couples %26amp; a lot of people say its not going to last %26amp; just make me depressed about it. Basically i feel like i have noone to turn to who will understand. Any advice as to how to make the months not seem so long without him here %26amp; anyway to ease the pain along with pick me ups? Long Distance Relationship Advice?
My boyfriend and I are long distance also so i know how you feel. Just try and keep the communication open and do little cute things. Like my boyfriend got a webcam and mic so i could see him. You can also send cute texts, mail things to each other. Just remember keeping communication open is the key and just remember that only you and your boyfriend know ur relationship so don't let others discourage you. Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Definitely keep a constant reminder of how much you love him. Sending letters is a good idea, possibly including gifts or photos. Phone calls, webcam. Setting up a 'date' ex; every night at 8PM, you both go on webcam or he calls you and you talk about whatever. That way you can look forward to interacting with him and it'll make your day go faster when you have something set.
I've been through the long distance love before. The guy moved from another state to be here with me in California. I just took one day at a time (and I also had a HUGE phone bill). Writing emails, sending letters, texting, keeping in touch daily is highly recommended. Soon the day will come and you will be together. It does seem like forever....but if a relationship with this person is what you want...it will be worth the wait.
what i think is romantic is sending each other love letters. each week, why don't you and you bf start writing letters to each other and send each other pictures. or send it each other gifts. i think that would be cool and romantic
My bf lives in Ga and I in MI. I know what your going through. Neither of us can move to the other one due to responsibilities right now. We are so in love and we are making it work. We visit as often as we can although its costing a lot of money. You just have to keep your head up and work on it every day. I know it hurts and being around couples doesn't help. Just know that once you are able to be together that your relationship will be stronger because of this. I wish you the best of luck and know you are not alone. :)
Hey! That's painful, I know! But just keep in mind, if there is no one else like him, or maybe no one else for you the way he is, then it is WORTH IT.


In my experience, people who say that it won't work either don't know what they are talking about, or have had it not work out themselves with someone who they probably did not put enough effort or commitment into.


My boyfriend and I were separate for almost a year- he in South Africa, and me in Canada. Nice things, surprising things, seem to be the most exciting and best for keeping up the magic of the relationship... Once he when to a botanical garden just so that he could send me pictures of flowers for Valentines Day.... and there's nothing like waking up to a heart-felt text message. Just keep loving each other, and showing each other how you feel.





Best of luck :D