Need some relationship advice...What should I do? Please help..It's my first relationship ever!?

Ok..so I'm in my first relationship. We've known each other for 2 years. We were good friends for one year and have been in a romantic relationship for one year. We've been doing really well and I think our relationship overall is great but just recently we've both been stressed about things and it led to her wanting some space from me. She said that she wanted space for about 3-4 days. However, after a day of not speaking to each other she contacted me and told me she really missed me. I was so happy she called because I was feeling like a wreck and so was she. She says she wants me in her life and all these other sweet things. I really missed her too but I'm afraid of getting too close to her again. I understand her wanting some space...I respect that but at the same time I felt really abandoned because she knew I was going through such a rough time with other things and she still just left me when I needed her most.





I have lots of fun with her, we get along great, and she understands me more than most people do sometimes. We've talked about all this and I told her how I felt about everything and vice versa. I still don't know if I should slowly let her back in my life or if I should just not even bother because I feel like she is unreliable.





What should I do?Need some relationship advice...What should I do? Please help..It's my first relationship ever!?
Omg I think we're living parallel lives!! lol the same thing happened to me just recently the only thing was that it wasn't my first relationship. Any who. After what we went through I started to realized after her little time apart she was acting differently towards me. We had a wonderful relationship before she needed space, I was always there for her, even when I was the only person to visit her in the hospital, I did everything for her but then she dissed me when I needed her the most, I felt maybe I should give her another try but just like you I felt she was unreliable and I started resenting her and my feelings of doubt for her grew, I spoke to her about it and told her how I felt, she said she understood but that it wasn't my fault. After that we broke up. We still remain very good friends and talk, if you want my opinion give it another shot, if it doesn't feel the same don't stick with it, cause those bad thoughts you're harboring will just grow. It's better to have her in your life as a friend then to not have her in your life at all. Good Luck!!