Relationship advice?

Okay so my boyfriend is being really sketchy. I was over there friday night and spent the night. and saturday he had to pick up his dad from the airport, so I came home to Tuscaloosa (he lives in Atlanta). Everything was perfectly fine when I left on Saturday morning. We've been talking for like 3 months now and dating for like 2. He's been weird as hell ever since Saturday afternoon. Like he's been talking different and not saying ';i love you'; as much and just really quiet. Well today I finally got it out of him that he's going to re-enlist in the military in the coast guard division. his only job has been a ';professional gambler'; and he changed majors 3 times in college and just doesn't know what he wants to do and hasn't really thought this out. So it's basically just something to get everyone off his back cause his whole family is successful. When I asked him what would happen between us if he got stationed somewhere else he just said it won't happen for a year or so so don't worryRelationship advice?
whatever your guy does with his life or plans to do you should remain his TOP priority!





your man has confided in you and shared his plans so thats a good sign but the upheavel in his life should not be an excuse to treat you casually or unthoughtfully...you need to know where you stand in this new life of his!! so talk to your guy...tell him you feel scared that he will leave you behind and ask for reassurance





im sure he will continue his efforts to keep your bond strong, support his decisions as if you dont you may lose him...stay calm and be there for him and hopefully if you take this trip together you will have time together to plan for a future, good luck!Relationship advice?
stick with him, seems like he's under a lot of pressure
Well... have you confronted him or at least brought up the subject of your future inconspicuously?





We don't know enough about your situation I think. The 'I love you' thing... how old are you guys? Even so, people get embarrassed about the 'I love you' stigma... men AND women. Geez... I am a female, and my last relationship, if I didn't say I love you EVERY time we talked on the phone, he flipped out. Love is more than words, so showing it is way more special. Saying it or forcing it all the time shows major insecurity, and will also lead to resentment.





Just because he doesn't know what to do ';when he grows up';, has nothing to do with your relationship. But if he IS so undecided and confused, maybe the military would be good for him. He is trying to find himself.





It sounds like he is tired, confused, trying to be good to everyone, but is catching a lot of flack from everyone. You, his family... etc. Try not to pressure him too much, otherwise he will want to break free. The best thing to do is to talk to him, tell him how you feel without the pressure and/or accusations. Let him know you are there for him, with all your heart. Maybe he will say he feels the same way....





But if he doesn't, it's better to know the truth now rather than wait a year and then break it off. So get to the bottom of it. And if he wants to break it off, be strong, it was bound to happen and you can save yourself an entire year and start dating somebody else, love happens more than once, I know for a fact. Best of luck dear.
well then...don't worry
why are you with him?





'; only job has been a ';professional gambler'; and he changed majors 3 times in college and just doesn't know what he wants to do and hasn't really thought this out. So it's basically just something to get everyone off his back ';





seriously.





My advice is that you should have never started this relationship because he's all about the BullShiiit. Nothing substantial will happen in your relationship, and pray you don't have kids with him. This relationship is going nowhere.
That may be a lie too!! That is still no reason to be talking differently to you.


Are you sure that it was his dad that he was picking up?