Relationship advice needed......?

So I have been dating this guy for three months and he is crazy about me. He tells me he loves me all the time and that he is willing to move out of the state to be with me when I have to relocate for work next year. The problem is I just dont feel the spark there. I think part of the problem is that he has not been in many relationships and I constantly have to tell him ';when and how'; to do things (mostly in bed).....which totally gets me out of the mood. We have not slept together yet because either he goes early or I get frustrated. But he is a really really great guy he has a great personality and would do anything for his friends/family. I just dont know what to do. We have talked about things and he says that he is going to do whatever he has to in order to make this work but I just dont know if there is anything anyone can do. Should I move on or stick around and see how much longer things can go like this?Relationship advice needed......?
My fianc茅 once told me she lost the spark between us. I didn't pay attention, and eventually she broke up with me. I am pretty much the type of guy your man is... afraid to do anything, take risks, or really open up. I used to say those exact things to her, and was willing to do anything. Well, when she broke up with me, I started working out, and I read two relationship self-help books. Working out turned her back on to me physically, which was a start. Reading the self-help books I did, taught me how to really listen to her (i.e.: Listen and understand... not listen to solve problems or give advise), and those two things combined ';reignited that spark'; that she had lost, so she told me. It took me a lot to open up in the bedroom, and I'm still learning, but she no longer feels like she has to initiate everything or light the fires.





I guess this is just my situation and I hope you can take something from it. She's freaky, im reserved. She's spontaneous, I'm conservative and timid. I had to be willing to open up and support her. Unless he is willing to make ';improvements'; (change) to the relationship, you probably won't get that spark back. If there isn't a spark, really though, there isn't a lot of hope.