Relationship advice: It feels like I'm putting more in than my girlfriend is?

I'm in a long distance relationship with an exchange student I met. She is a smart, pretty girl. I don't feel like I'm a slouch either, I am going to be a professional, I take care of myself and think I am a nice, supportive, fairly romantic boyfriend.





The problem I have is I feel I am putting more into the relationship. I always am the one who arranges for us to talk (huge time difference.) I also often go out of my way to make things easier for her but she never does.





When I brought this up to her, she said I'm keeping score. I just feel it's unfair and that I could be in a different relationship is a lot less work and more rewarding but don't want to break her heart.





Any suggestions, please?Relationship advice: It feels like I'm putting more in than my girlfriend is?
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Often girls play ';hard to get'; which is what it sounds like she might be doing. The more a guy talks to them and puts in more effort, the better a girl will feel because it makes them realise how much the guy likes them. And so they keep doing it...





Maybe if you tried playing it cool for a while, like talking less, let her come to you kind of thing, she might realise she can longer mess with you and that she must make more of an effort.





If this doesn't work you should try and tell her it isn't going to work if she continues like this. If she doesn't change, then she obviously isn't the right person for you, or doesn't have strong feelings for you, so it's probably best to move on and accept that it is, in the end of the day, her loss.





Good luck =] x