Need relationship advice... HELP?

My ex girlfriend (23) and I (24) had been together for over 2 years and we have decided to take a break to see other people and ';figure out what we both want'; in her words. Its been about a month now, and we still talk here and there... usually just the occasional text message. I'd like to get back together with her but I want to respect her wish to take some time.





Just recently we both said how hard it's been to not talk to eachother very much. I asked her if she ever thought maybe it wasnt the correct decision if it was so difficult for the both of us?





She said ';I have questioned it, but i think its good for both of us right now'; WHAT THE HECK DOES THAT MEAN?





Any help as to what that means or if I should just move on would be sooo helpful thanks!Need relationship advice... HELP?
It sounds like she still has feelings for you but she's interested in another guy that she wants to try a relationship with or that she just misses being able to talk or hook up with any guy that she wants.





Based on the comments that she's made I don't think she will ever decide to get back together with you. She wants to have you and still be able to date other guys and right now she has that. Why give that up!





I think you should go see her or take her out and tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her you love her, miss her, and that you want her back. Then tell her you're tired of playing games and waiting on her. And that if she doesn't want to be with you then you'll have to move on because you're not just going to sit around waiting on her to decide she's ready to stop dating other guys. She'll ask for sometime to think about it hoping that you'll forget about it and you shouldn't give her longer that the next day. If she doesn't decide to be with you than walk away because she will just continue to be selfish and break your heart.


You do deserve better than that.Need relationship advice... HELP?
I get the feeling by the sound of what your ex said ...that she is ok with the separation and maybe needs a lot more time to see what she really wants. It might be better if you both cut all contact with each other , until she is really sure what it is she really wants. it wont be easy I'm sure but at lest you will get an answer in the end.