Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Relationship Advice?

I have known this guy my entire life and in July we started hanging out on a closer level. We hang out three or so times a week and have been together on an intimate level. I really like him but he keeps telling me that he doesn't want a relationship. Everytime I mention it he simply says you never know what the future holds. I really enjoy spending time with him but I would like so much more. Should I wait it out or move on and find some one who is willing to make a commitment to me? Thoughts?Relationship Advice?
If you want a guy who is committed to you...go out and get one! If you really enjoy being ';friends';, then be friends with this guy. It is your life, you should do what makes you happy.Relationship Advice?
You too are intimate and yet he does not want a relationship which means he just simply wants sex and you want commitment which he clearly does not want. I think he probably just wants someone to use, if a guy just wants sex without a relationship he doesn't want you he wants what's in your pants. I think you should move on and find someone who is ready for a commitment as yourself. If you continue this relationship there is a strong chance u may end up getting hurt so be careful.
i would tell him if something dont happen with us soon you could loose me for good, its up2 him then
Why would you wait? If he's not ready you can't make him ready, move on to someone who shares your same understanding.
If by being ';together on an intimate level'; means sex, then this guy is just stringing you along for just that. It's easy for him to chat with you a few times a week, but offer no other boyfriend type committments to you as well. He even goes one step further and gives you hope by saying you never know what the future holds. He sounds like he's using you, plain and simple. Don't allow him to do that. If he doesn't want to be a proper boyfriend, dump him and find a guy who does.
Tell him you need someone who is interested in a real relationship. If that isn't him then the two of you need to take a break. Use that time to look around. You could waste years with a guy who is only interested in sex and nothing more from girls. He might want the fun but is not ready for responsibility.
I have been in the same case before. I actually moved on and then once he noticed that i can get someone else he wanted to date me. So if i was you i would move on and then he will notice that he actually does like you.
OTAYY... trust me ive been in that situation before only i was in ur friend-boys situation...he liked me ALOT but i didnt like him like that but i also didnt want to hurt him b/c i care ab him a whole lot and didnt wanna loose him as a friend...id be careful b/c make the wrong moves and he will start feeling uncomfortable around youu. good luckk.
Find someone else girl. Everyone deserves a man who's going to be devoted to them. If you find someone else, he may get jealous and realize what he lost. Don't hang around for him to change his mind, and definetly don't do the friends with benefits thing because that only works when there aren't any true feelings involved. Don't set yourself up for pain in the future.
He's right ';you never know what the future holds'; but if you're willing to wait then that's fine. I think you should also date other guys and live life, experience other relationships.. It need not to be serious all of a sudden..

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