Some relationship advice?

Ok so my stomach's in knots over my first date...we're going to the movies and I'm more nervous than ever...especially since I don't think I'll really be going since my mom hates him...but that's besides the point. Anyways, idk what I should do...I tried to relax but that only made it worse we plan to ';go early before the movie (maybe an hour or two) and we just hang out talk, then go to the movie, leave have some dinner or something hang out some more then go home';. I'm freaking 15 and im still flipping out...and the main thing on my mind it that idk if im a good kisser!!!! thats my main concern and i dont even know why...what should i do?? how can i calm myself down?? i mean we can talk easily over the internet but talking face to face make us both nervous...help me chill out before tuesday please!!!Some relationship advice?
You are both going to be nervous. It is normal at your age. Just think of him as one of the girls, I know it is hard but don't treat him like one of the girls, it will help you to relax a little, or think of him as your gay bff, you know you like him, and you think he likes you to, but just remember all teens are nervous, hell all adults are nervous when we go on first dates, it is an ice breaker, you will get comfy with him over time. Good luck and have fun. :)Some relationship advice?
Wow! This sounds a lot like a situation I had to deal with a while ago. Well, as far as the conversation thing goes, just be yourself. And if worse comes to worse (you have nothing to talk about) just think of something random and start a conversation on it. (Guys think it's cute when a girl is random anyways) And as far as the kissing thing, most people who are nervous about kissing try to hard to be good. If you just relax and go with the flow you will seem like a much better kisser. :)
To be nervous is normal. I prefer to call it excitement. Kind of like getting on a rollercoaster for the first time. When the butterflies start flapping repeat in your mind and out loud,';Everything will be fine,'; and you will soon have yourself convinced of it. Don't worry about the kissing, if the chemistry is there, it will be okay.
Be yourself!! More than likely, your both feeling the exact same way. Keep that in mind when you hangout. You'll feel more comfortable that your not the only one who's nervous. And everyone has their first kiss nervousness. As long as your in the moment and enjoying it, then you have nothing to worry about!!
you - will - be - fine(=,


I wouldnt worry, once tuesday comes and your with him you wont even remember what the big deal was
Hangout some more and the shyness will go away within time


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hear some relaxed musik it helps gets u chill and makes u feel high it really helps so try it!
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take a chill pill
I know it's hard, but try not to worry about it. Keep yourself busy doing things that will take your mind off of your insecurities. It sounds like you really like him and since he's asked you out and wants to spend so much time with you, it's obvious that he's interested in you. Don't even think about being a bad kisser. If someone is into you it won't matter. Besides, girls are usually better kissers than guys. I've only ever heard one girl complained about but my friends are always meeting guys who are terrible kissers. Just don't use too much tongue, slobber everywhere, or bite him hard. You'll be fine.





Good luck.
Hey,





First of all take a breather. In and Out.


Even though you may think that your mothers opinion of the guy has nothing to do with making you nervous, it sort of does. If this guy turns out to be your boyfriend and your mother doesn't like him, then I think that is worrying you even just a bit. I think you should sit down with your mum and talk to her about him. Now, First dates are always nerve raking. Most girls feel the same and have the same questions buzzing around in their heads. Bad kisser? Well its your first date and maybe the first time you've been kissed so really its okay to be nervous. When you have your first kiss, you should really have a kiss that is mostly closed mouthed and lasted for about 5-10 seconds. That way anyone can do it without being worried whether they are bad or not and as you feel comfortable, you can 'grow' your kiss. Kisses are about love and really there is no such thing as a bad kisser and a good kisser. Like I said its about love and the guy should be glad he is getting a kiss from you on the First Date anyway. Just breath and think positively. If you do that nothing can go wrong.





I wish you all the best of luck





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ok first off calm down your going to be fine dont get your self worked up over something that hasnt even happend yet...the night will go as u preceve it if u think its going to be a train wreck then it will be so on your date imagein everything will be fine and it will be secondly about being a good kisser it comes with experance i wondered the same thing and the more ppl i kissed the better kisser i became (not that i kiss alot of ppl but...hey i dont need to explain things to you) any ways just take deeps breaths slowly to calm your self in thru your nose out through your mouth and u should be fine hope your date goes well